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I. Need. Advice. BAD.
11 years ago
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I need some serious advice, from my furry friends...
My Dilemma:
I have very strong feelings for this one guy, and i've been trying my hardest to be friend-y and get to know him, and the more i know about him, the more it makes me fall for him. I have this sinking feeling that if i even let on that i like him like this, hes going to turn me down, and possibly even never talk to me again. He is literally perfect in every possible way in my eyes, he's a fursuiter, he understands me, he's even helped me when i didn't know who else to turn to. I don't know what to do, and i've never felt this lost before. I cant remember the last time i have felt so much love for one human being, let alone one i haven't been with in person all that much. He's helped me stop plastering myself with makeup every day, and every time i talk to him, i feel like i don't need to hide anything. I feel like i can really be me, without any sort of ridicule or judgement.
I don't know if i should tell him, or if i should just let it be, and wait for him to see how much i care, for him to come to me and say he likes me back, you know? He's just everything i could ever ask for, but im scared to destroy my chances.
Help..?
I was in a similar situation. A few years back, I fell in love. My first boyfriend. But we were just kids, so it didn't work out.
But I was in love with him. Perfect in every way in my eyes. Even his little flaws; I love them.
Four years later, I had dated two other guys mainly to fill a void because I didn't expect him to love my hideous god damn self a second time around.
I didn't want to make advances because I didn't want to scare him away.
Mixed signals like woah.
But one day, recently, I just went for it.
We're back together.
I think go for it. If it doesn't work out, better to know the truth and move forward from the pain. But if he dOES feel the same, then dAMN U LUCKY.
MAKE SENTIMENTAL AND HEARTWARMING LOVE AND KISS IN THE RAIN
But who knows? Maybe with a little coaxing, it can work.
My mate turned down my subtle suggestions to getting back together probably 100 times before he was swayed.
It was because he thought we wouldn't last because he is always busy and won't have time for me.
I was like "honey I dated a guy from LA and saw him only like 5 times in person, time together is not an issue. I have grown up and I am patient"
and now we are together! :D He can be frustrating sometimes, but thats ok because I love him, and it isn't his fault. I don't think he dated anyone else after me, and we were kids when we dated last.
Thanks hon.