( I WANT TO START OUT HERE, by saying that this following nutty collection of letters is a reflection on the past and not aimed at or about ANYONE in or around my life currently K? o3o <3 )

imho the most puke inducing phrase humans have yet devised is "your a great guy/girl but..."
not so much because of what it means of course, but rather what it doesn't mean and what it can sometimes hide

i hate it for its often vagueness, and can often come across as condescending (unless its followed by the proper words and reasons)

i've heard it once too many maybe ... but it does come across as complete bullshit after the 3rd and 4th times
apparently the popular verdict is ima great guy ... its just that no one wants a great guy

im force to draw the conclusion ..that either no one wants a great guy... or .. just maybe ..
im actually just an asshole, and people dont want to say it.

oddly thats a self fulfilling prophecy with me, i love ..i ... NEED .. honest direct language and words
euphemisms only piss me off, which in turn, lead to me, indeed, being an asshole im sure

"great guy but..." most of the time is just something someone says to .. protect your feelings or such.
firstly id rather be the only one to decide if my feelings need protecting
and secondly .. I've decided they don't..

Now i think it is fair to mention that on the odd occasion this little phrase can be valid and can on the rare occasion be used truthfully and honestly be applied to a valid situation ...but its pretty fucking rare, too many people have used it incorrectly I'd say

its easy folks ... honesty and truth make a happy and understanding Lyger
.. lies, half truths or euphemisms ... lest just say ..are ill advised ... especially if its to "protect my feelings"


*flops*