I am a watcher of yours but you don't know me, and tbh I don't know you all that well. Though, I feel I need to shed some light.
Love is a really powerful thing, and almost everyone knows that, but when one seeks something so powerful it doesn't always end well. Same with Love.
Seeking love down for the sake of being loved tends to deal with a disappointing relationship with someone else, not saying all the time, but most of the time. When love slowly comes into your life and that one person starts to make you feel really special, that's when you'll know that a relationship is well worth fighting for.
The reason most people feel disappointed with their relationship after they've spent a long time looking for someone to "Love" is because they lost the thrill the felt when starting the relationship and when you discover that there a differences and quarrels, you tend to ask if it's worth it. A lot of the times that happens, people will break up and end up abandoning Love because it apparently hurt them, when all they did was hurt themselves.
I learned this, and decided I would set my priorities towards making a healthy and stable life for myself first, so that I can make things not only easier on myself but most importantly easier on my Mate. I also learned to cherish those around me, because I knew that those who stuck by my side Loved me and I Loved them as well for who they were.
There were several times where people would ask me to be in a relationship with them, and several times I had to refuse, because I wanted to set my life straight before throwing myself into a relationship.
Then, this guy named Brad comes into my life at a time where I was really struggling. I was close to being kicked out of my roommate's apartment, started hormones plus I couldn't afford them because had no work or money as well I was becoming ill often because of stress and anxiety. Though, Brad, came to a city he wasn't very fond of in the beginning, bunked himself at my place for almost 2 months and did many things for me. A lot of the things he did may have been small, but it made me feel so different and constantly happy.
He asked me out, but it was different. I felt like I wasn't ready for a relationship, but something else was telling me that this person is really the one. Took a while, but I ended up saying yes, and ever since then we have been happily together.
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All in all, don't throw yourself out to find Love. People Love you and someday there will be a person who wishes to make you happy and want a relationship. Don't force yourself to be attracted to someone, understand that your heart is fragile and beautiful, so take good care of it.
Like I said earlier, you don't know me and I don't know you either, but I can say that you're a beautiful person, and I would hate to see someone make the same mistakes I've seen several people do.
(Please excuse any false grammar and spelling, thanks~) ^^
I am a watcher of yours but you don't know me, and tbh I don't know you all that well. Though, I feel I need to shed some light.
Love is a really powerful thing, and almost everyone knows that, but when one seeks something so powerful it doesn't always end well. Same with Love.
Seeking love down for the sake of being loved tends to deal with a disappointing relationship with someone else, not saying all the time, but most of the time. When love slowly comes into your life and that one person starts to make you feel really special, that's when you'll know that a relationship is well worth fighting for.
The reason most people feel disappointed with their relationship after they've spent a long time looking for someone to "Love" is because they lost the thrill the felt when starting the relationship and when you discover that there a differences and quarrels, you tend to ask if it's worth it. A lot of the times that happens, people will break up and end up abandoning Love because it apparently hurt them, when all they did was hurt themselves.
I learned this, and decided I would set my priorities towards making a healthy and stable life for myself first, so that I can make things not only easier on myself but most importantly easier on my Mate. I also learned to cherish those around me, because I knew that those who stuck by my side Loved me and I Loved them as well for who they were.
There were several times where people would ask me to be in a relationship with them, and several times I had to refuse, because I wanted to set my life straight before throwing myself into a relationship.
Then, this guy named Brad comes into my life at a time where I was really struggling. I was close to being kicked out of my roommate's apartment, started hormones plus I couldn't afford them because had no work or money as well I was becoming ill often because of stress and anxiety. Though, Brad, came to a city he wasn't very fond of in the beginning, bunked himself at my place for almost 2 months and did many things for me. A lot of the things he did may have been small, but it made me feel so different and constantly happy.
He asked me out, but it was different. I felt like I wasn't ready for a relationship, but something else was telling me that this person is really the one. Took a while, but I ended up saying yes, and ever since then we have been happily together.
---
All in all, don't throw yourself out to find Love. People Love you and someday there will be a person who wishes to make you happy and want a relationship. Don't force yourself to be attracted to someone, understand that your heart is fragile and beautiful, so take good care of it.
Like I said earlier, you don't know me and I don't know you either, but I can say that you're a beautiful person, and I would hate to see someone make the same mistakes I've seen several people do.
(Please excuse any false grammar and spelling, thanks~) ^^
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