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11 years ago
Okay so here's whats been going on with me...well more or less my family.
A few weeks ago, my boyfriend of 9years, started to feel weird. A week went past and it wasn't getting better. =/ So finally guys being guys, made me make an appointment to go see a doctor. I know its not fun to see them especially if theyre there for the back door exit if you catch my drift.
Well, the doctor came back with nothing good. Something is very wrong. He was tested for an infection which came back negative. So now he has to go to another doctor that specializes in Cancer. His appointment for the specialist is next Tuesday. =/
So as of now, I am trying to be strong for him. Smile, tell him I love him and be with him while we wait to see if he has Prostate cancer at the age of 27. I'm very scared and feel helpless in this whole thing. I feel frusterated over the fact I have been asking him to get yearly check ups since he was 23. His dad had it, his grandfather died of it....his family told him to get checked. Now there might be no option. So I'm keeping my head up and hoping its something that is curable or removable or fixable.
This may delay work if work is owed.
So keep good thoughts about him. If your religious, pray for him to be okay. If your not just hope that things will work out okay. Cause I'm very scared.
A few weeks ago, my boyfriend of 9years, started to feel weird. A week went past and it wasn't getting better. =/ So finally guys being guys, made me make an appointment to go see a doctor. I know its not fun to see them especially if theyre there for the back door exit if you catch my drift.
Well, the doctor came back with nothing good. Something is very wrong. He was tested for an infection which came back negative. So now he has to go to another doctor that specializes in Cancer. His appointment for the specialist is next Tuesday. =/
So as of now, I am trying to be strong for him. Smile, tell him I love him and be with him while we wait to see if he has Prostate cancer at the age of 27. I'm very scared and feel helpless in this whole thing. I feel frusterated over the fact I have been asking him to get yearly check ups since he was 23. His dad had it, his grandfather died of it....his family told him to get checked. Now there might be no option. So I'm keeping my head up and hoping its something that is curable or removable or fixable.
This may delay work if work is owed.
So keep good thoughts about him. If your religious, pray for him to be okay. If your not just hope that things will work out okay. Cause I'm very scared.
The day of op was a bit scary though , as it's like a slap of realization that this is happening but i kept my cool and everything turned out okay but my mum is a bit defeated ,she says next time she gets cancer again ,she'll not go for the op :S which rather upset me.
if you ever need to vent please do so <3 but i hope everything will turn out okay ! the death rate for cancer is getting less and less as years go by as science improves and help and support is everywhere now .
Good luck and healing thoughts sent your way , take care of yourself Kitsu <3
One important thing to note though is to try and keep his stress level down. Stress spreads this kind of cancer.
Make him stay away from sugars as well, that includes all natural sugars like honey. It also spreads the cancer.
My very close friend/recent pastor is going through the same thing right now, he has prostate cancer, his father had it as well.
I'm sorry you and he have to go through this, but it is usually a slow moving cancer and can be cured in some cases, my thoughts and prayers are with you both, hopefully its nothing.
Now trying to keep this man away from Sweet tea is like telling a kid to go to bed at 7pm. Lol its just not going to happen. But I've been trying to goof with him and try to cheer him up. Make light of the situation and say stupid shit. Lol I told him yesterday I feel bad and he thought I said I hope you don't die. Lol so we laughed for like 4 hours about that. So we are trying to keep high hopes.
It sucks for your friend too. =(
I'll keep happy thoughts for you as well.
We should get together sometime and have a furday. What part of Kansas/Missouri are you in?
Lol that's gonna be hard to give up if he does end up having it. But yeah, its best to make light of these kinds of situations.
That's what I had to do when I lost my dad (no worries I'm doing fine as of right now) I just know that feeling of making things less hard in a difficult situation .
Thank you for keeping him in your thoughts as well, he is middle aged, and sort of a father/good male figure for me. He's an artist himself, and its hard to see him have to struggle. But he's doing his best. Yeah totes, I'll note you where I am, don't need any creepers trying to creep lol. :3 But best wishes and all the prayers and thoughts being sent your guys's way. Stay strong, if you need to talk more I'm here. :3