soft is better for a beginner

See I've heard soft is good from some and other say medium because soft is too softly and to floppy

I guess its just preference but you said you've never had a toy before so going soft is probably a better bet so you don't hurt yourself

True.

im im still thinking about medium becuase i know to go slow. but im still jugling with sies. small would probably be better.. but it seems so... small... x.x

Lol well seems like some one is a size queen lol

I'd go with the medium firmness, You could always ask on the BD forums though, I looked there before buying a toy and I remember seeing a thread that said medium was good, it really depends on what you want to use it for though.

Okay I'll ch k it out and I'm thinking about medium. And I want it for what most gay males would use one for. Amy other advice I was gonna get the bd lube too.

The cumlube is awesome, just remember to use a good amount. The only other advice would be to take it slow when you get your toy so you don't hurt yourself, especially since it'll have a knot.

Yea but hat why I'm getting a small. I eventually want a medium but I know I have to work my way up. I want a medium becuase I really wanted the chu tube but the small doesn't support it. And I knot go slow with the knot. I figured it would be a long while before I could take it. Any other you would like to add?

I mean medium firmness, I apologise for not being more specific. x3 The toy I have is a small with a medium firmness, the Doberman one just in case you are curious x3.
But yeah, I cannot think of anything else, just be careful.

I'm getting the same one you do. Did you get it as your first toy? Are you satisfied?

Yes, it is my first toy. And yes, but now I want a bigger one x3. Small just doesn't cut it for me. And yeah, the cumtube feature looks really nice, but its rather pricey.

How long have you had yours? To give me a rough idea of how long until I'll need to upgrade.

I don't know if you can base your estimates on me. What size people like is subjective. I have had my toy for about six months, but it is just so tiny to me.

see that how i kinda feel... i look at it and it just seems so small to me... but i am so afraid to buy one and it ends up to be... disappointing... but at the same time i worry if i get a medium it will be to big and i cant take it... and i have bad money issues and this will be my only opportunity to get one.. so i want something that will last. how easily do you takw the knot? im asking becuase we both begin with nothing and ya.

With the help of the lube I took it very easily the first time. But everyone's body is different. I also have bad money issues, part of the reason I got a small is because they were cheaper and most of the pre-made ones were out of stock aside from smalls and larges.

see im big. im 220lbs, 6 foot 4,3 foot weide, im not a small person. im so leaning towards the medium. i mean worse case senerio i cant take the not right? becuase ive look the shaft inst that much bigger.

I suppose, it really isn't dependent on your size really, I read a lot on the forums there cause I had the same fears and such. Some people just react differently to such things. But yeah, I guess that is pretty much the worse case scenario I suppose, and you can always work yourself up to that goal, there isn't anything that says you have to take the knot on your first go. And there are other exercises and stuff you can do to help.

Fuck you

We are over.

Wha? Why? What happened? Master? X.x

you know exactly why!

All i did was be bussy in rl. i got a job, was working on my license getting back, my family, etc. ive been bussy. And now... i lost the most important person to me... he is why i am how i am now... im going to do my best to make him proud, make me want him back is is my owner for life and if he never wants me back... so be it. he will always be part of me and ill never have another master. Just treat him good please. he is an amazing person.

All im going to say is your greedy and leave it at that. I will take are of him

I wasn't trying to be greedy I love him I havnt stopped crying... This is tearing me apart....

All i know is he says hes done being a master cause its not worth it

I hope it isnt true... he means the world to me and more... i cant survive without him i carte for him so much and so deeply... the pain peirces my very soul and these last few days have been living hell... all i can do... is hold onto my tag... cry and think of him....

You have a mate get over yourself

He means mroe to me then a mate...