Daw, Hun. I was told the same thing when my mom saw my FA page; how I was "bi-curious". Good lord that was the worst day of my life. But I hope you have better luck then I did. So now I'm "straight" because of my mom, I guess it's better that way. YAY. *hugs*

*hugs* well I tried being staight. GUESS WHAT. I'm still gay. so It's not a choice I can change. it wan't a choice at all. I relized I was gay a little while ago. but after I did. it explained alot about why I didn't like girls.

Parents don't understand, I guess. I wish I knew how to fix things. I can't though. *bows head*

Tis okay nothing thay can do to change who I am. *hug's you tightly*

*smiles* that's the best thing about it. No one can change who we are and what we do. Like being a part of the huge family of furs.

Yeah so I'm just gonna wag my faggety tail all the way to happyness. and I hope you all will join me.

*wags tail and grins* Yush ;3

XD

*tackles and grins* Of course!

I lov you.

i would do some research and tell them your findings, because you cant chose to be gay, it is something you are (it seems as if they are misinformed)

That's what I want to tll them. but they think somoene told me I was and now I wnat to be even though I've been gay for as long as I can remember.

i found a site that might help a bit
http://www.bgiok.org.uk/
if it dose not, then give them time, eventually they will accept you for who you are again

OMG this site is amazing. but if I show it to them they'll blame the site for the reason I'm gay. then they'll take my computer away and I can't talk to you guys.

would they listen to a Psychiatrist?

NOPE!!!.
they said they don't want to do that.
see thy don't mind me being gay.
If they thought I wasn't trying to be gay.
if they thought it was natural. they wouldn't care.
but they think someone else is making me gay.

well had to try, as i said further down, i am here to help with anything (i only like to see people happy with what they have (their lives an family that loves them)
i am sure that they still love you

It's okay. they say they had understanding people as a major in callage .that so funny. XD
well thank you.

your very welcome

as you probs already know, im BI and well its not my choice i think chicks are damn fine! (lolz X3)
and its not your choice that you think guys are hot as hell. :3

so don't lissen to anyone that tells you different! Cause you sre who you are and NO ONE can take that away from you...
And you know i'll always be there for you, cause you're like an awesome brother to me!

if you want you can write a vent note to me... love ya *hugs you tight while pating you back lightly* ;w;

*tears up* thank you.
And I won't it'll tke heaven hell and the earth to make me even think about not being who I am.

im glad ;w; *wipes tear from your eye* (even know my art is pretty bad XD) im ganna make us a bff pic :3 how does that sound? ^w^

That sound's awesome. I wanted to d the same thing.

:3 okies ill get started

Me too. BFF power.

WOO! *offers a BroFist* :3

*brofist taken* WOO

*cause youe ARE who you are

its sad to hear that your parents don't accept your feelings :(
your parents should accept it :( and you would tell them soon or later, so you got it out now, maybe thats one good thing for now and can think about it
honestly, i don't know what my interest in is, and i have told my mom, that i didnt know, and my mom accepted it, she said she would be happy if i would come with a girl or boy at home, but my dad, really pissed me off, and wanted to take me to a place to get that idea out of my head, and now i just don't know because my dad forces me to be straight, like you have

but its actual really good that you know you like men, so you won't make a mistake later you know (i think.. don't get me wrong plz)

I think you just should try to not let it show and just pretend it didnt happen that you have said it, sure, they will remember it, but hopefully soon or later, will think about it and accept you who you are, and not just keep trying to force you to be straight

if you want to talk or anything, i am right here for you *hugs* and i hope you are doing alright ^-^

Now see their not trying to make me straight they don't care. but They think that I chose to be gay instead of this being what I am.

*nods* you don't choose, its the way you are, and they should accept that josh,
its weird though that they think you choose.. well

if you every want to talk i am here
and you are who you are, and let no one change that!

I won't.
perfect example.
I wouldn't of broke up with you if I thought i wouldn't hurt you cause I was gay. but I loved being with you. then I thought about it and
the funny thing is sometimes I imagined you as a guy. XD

i taught i was gay, told my parents, dad accepted it, mom ,not so mush , made me to go to a Psychiatrist, turns out i am bi, but i like cars and dragons more, did not tell them that yet but i think they already know

anyways i am here if you need help with anything, ANYTHING

Thank you. I will if I need any help. Thanks.

Car's and dragons.

i know all the specs of the fastest production car in the world (the Bugatti veryon supper sport)
and i have about 900 photos of dragons on my computer and fbook

Why yes they are. everyone is different. the questio is. will you express your differences.
That is so cool. The dragon part I like. I'm not a big fan of car's.

that is ok, i know there is some people that like some stuff that is a lot more bizarre than me (not gona give examples)

I know what you mean and I'm not going to get into that. XD
But okay that's cool bud.

yes i am bizarre, got told that many times by family and friends
everyone is different

really? hmm interesting,

to be honest, i sometimes miss it, but i understand you completely :)
and i also loved being with you, still do! but then more like friends ;)
you are truly my best friend on here! so thank you for that josh

You are so welcome.

Thank you so much.
I hope they might actually accept me for ho I am for once. but tht'll have to wait till I'm an actual person.

I've got nothing pal, sorry... My own "coming" out was rough as is, and I never intended. At all. They found out by reading my texts, breaking into my Skype account, and reading practically everything. I sat in my room trying not to hop out my window head first, dive through my door and unleashing my anger on them, so many things. Instead I sat in my room and bawled to myself .-. ...
tl;dr
Parents invaded privacy and found out I had a boyfriend in California. .-.

All I can say is I hope things go okay and get better. It will get better though, and best of luck to you :3

Thanks. And I hope the best of futures for you as well.
But it just amkes me so mad when they try and preasure me into being straight. like "how do you know you don't like girls if you never dated one"
Okay first of all people aren't like Ice cream flavors you line up and see which one's you like.
You pick which ever is appealing to you. and for me that's guy's cause thay are Hot as fuck.

ikr c: ...
But in my case, being Pansexual, all "flavors" appeal to me c: ...
Except nuts. I don't like nuts. .-.
Christ I'm being terrible, sorry xD ...

I totally get that though. My parents a few years back, when I "came out" they said in short: Lolno, you just haven't met the right gal yet, and have only been around dudes.
Then they started to believe me, and it got worse! :D They started blaming themselves for me being the way I am, because they didn't teach me right .-.
Also straight up prayed in front of me, preaching, telling the devil to get the hell out of me and back to hell .-.
It was just terrible... .-.

I'm sure given time your parents can adjust, and hopefully you can still have a decent relationship with them. Because mine is wrecked entirely with my parents .~. ...
Anywho, yeah. It'll be better eventually, and hell. Do what I saw on tumblr if you want. .-.
Ask them if they like llamas, sexually and so on, if they say no, then say they haven't met the right llama, and pour all sorts of llama pics on their faces c: ...

Well I didn't have it that bad. but he's making me feel like I'm no longer his best friend anymore. he's my father and now that I said one little thing he was gonna learn by himself. he thinks that I've failed him. like he say's I'm no longer a man cause of it. or how now I'm not the same person.
NEWS FLASH
I haven't changed a bit I'll still fish and play paint ball with him. just maybe I'll be looking at the other guy's a little more. XD
But that's the thing. if they were the one's to think I was gay. they would have no problem. but it's the fact that I told them and they didn't have a clue that makes them not believe me and want me to change.

ike my dad still is constantly trying to set me up with people. but in the end all that happens is that we start talking about boy's and about other thing's. GIRLS FRICKIN ROCK. but I'm not sexually attracted to them.

and he doesn't believe this like he's inside my head. Because apprealty taking a major in collage makes you be able to stop and see every gay guy in the world.

he got really pissed when I said. like he said I wouldn't like lego's growing up.
I said "that's a steario type"
He got so mad He was like "LIKE HELL IT'S IS. this is what you'd be doing as a young boy if you were gay.
BUut earlier when i first told them they were like NO NO. your too young you don't know shit yet. you just haven't tried it with a girl yet.
the thing is that I have. and I didn't like it. I also tried it with a guy and I liked it.
SO he need's to get off my ass and let me live. I can't wait till collage when I move out.

Mmm... Yeah, sorry to hear that :< ... Stereotypes DO come from somewhere, but they don't apply to everything .-. ... And, Legos? The hell did that come from .-. ... Never heard that stereotype before...

Gotta just LOVE it when parents or family members, or whoever just go on like that though .-. ...
And yeah, my dad reacted just like that. In fact, I think he still thinks it was just a phase, and that I'm "better" now xD ...
I admit I haven't tried it with a girl, but I have with a guy. Three in fact .-. I've always liked both genders and sexes, and so on. Just never gained the courage to ask anyone out .-.
It'll definitely get better though, just don't go all shovey-rainbow-gayness in his face and shit. Idunno. I really don't know xD Sorry .w. ...
I guess I'm saying don't shove it all in his face, or something. (God am I just dead .-.)

Anyways, girls are awesome. I get to talk about butts with them on occasion, and so on c: ... In fact, I was only friend with one girl until I "came out". Now I has many :3 ...

And good, keep doing things with your father and family. I totally stopped with mine, family and so on, and I honestly regret it. If I could go back, with the warnings and so on, I would so do it.
But nah, I basically hate half my family now because of my choices.

And I leave you with this, a quote from my straight friend, Seraphin_Velzets, who literally just sent this to me. Hope you don't mind, but he's a tad creepy, and so am I, and we were ind of talking about what we are in this journal. c: ...

"It's my opinion that most parents are going to have a slight state of disbelief because of the bad stereotypes that exist.... Same with friends... But your friends and family love you and care about you, at some point they will see it's nothing to make a huge deal about, and they shouldn't worry. Im sure you will both be great people regardless. Maybe even stronger for what you go through. Life isn't easy, especially if your gay, but living through it, dealing with what shit it may bring only grows your strength, shows you deserve and will get the good that comes from it. I respect you greatly for coming out, it takes guts. Im sure your family will support you, just give it time :)"

And I too, respect you for coming out, even if it was mildly forced/pressured. It's never, ever easy. <3

Thank you. I'll keep that in mind.

Hope what I said helped bud <3

It helped me feel a some more comfort in the fact they'll come around to accepting me for who I am.
Thank you

Any time :3, you ever need some advice, don't be afraid to hunt me down, i'm there for anyone who needs it bud

I wish you the best of luck, man! It's hard, but i'm sure they'll calm down in time! I really don't have much to say, but if it helps, I'm going through the same thing. I Hope it gets better for you!

Thank you.
I didn't want to make a problem for you all. but thank you.
And best of luck to you as well.

*wiggles hips* I am making you gay! Bwar har har on yer parents.

Lol on all this goofiness. I found out I was bisexual a few years ago, and I don't think there's a way to be rid of it. It may be redundant to say so, but I'd suggest just being yourself.

Take a deep breath buddy. They'll either accept you for exactly how you are, or they'll just keep tinkering with their 'gaydar' till they get it right.

*hugs you*

Thanks
*hug's you*
they can belive what they want but I'm gay and nothing will change that. I don't know if that's possible.

If i can ask, how old are you?