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I have a confession to make.
11 years ago
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Well... I'm just gonna come right out and say it: for the past six years or so, I've been struggling with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.
I don't know exactly why it started -- it just... did. All I know is that for years my life has been a daily struggle with obsessive, intrusive thoughts and random things causing me anxiety. I'm a total perfectionist about the stupidest shit and I have to perform my weird rituals to make myself feel better and block out the groundless phobias vying for control of my mind, despite knowing for a fact it's all absurd and not based in any logic, yet unable to talk myself out of any of it, and living with near-constant anxiety about it all.
Yet... as much as I wanted it to stop, I couldn't talk to anyone about it. Knowing it was all so stupid and not based in reality made me feel a sense of shame and guilt about it all. That, and frankly, when the average person thinks of OCD, they think of one person: Monk. A fictional character whose symptoms are played up for the sake of comedy. As much as I honestly enjoy that show, it's nothing like reality. But it's hard to explain that when half the internet thinks they're "sooooo OCD LOL" because they like things neat or some stupid shit. So because of the guilt, and not wanting people to think I'm Monk, I never talked to anyone about it and simply dealt with it alone.
I've tried very, very hard to fight it on my own -- trying to block out the thoughts and delay or deny my urges to perform some compulsive behavior, be it hand-washing, biting my lips or cheeks, re-doing whatever I just did -- but it's all failed. In all honesty, part of why I started my EMT training was because I hoped it'd serve as exposure therapy. You know, go out into the field and make contact with all the sickies, but know it's okay because we take precautions. But... no good. I did at least discover I love this field, though, and I'm sticking with it regardless, so something positive did come from it. (I have news related to this, by the way.)
Eventually I got tired enough of dealing with it that, after talking to a friend who began undergoing successful treatment for the same problem, I finally talked to my parents about it and sought treatment for it. Yesterday I finally visited a psychiatrist and was officially diagnosed with OCD, and I was given a prescription for Prozac. I'm really thankful I can finally begin treating my condition with professional help. The timing is excellent, as well -- Monday I was contacted by my agency's Human Resources and asked to sign up for their Advanced EMT pre-employment exam, so when I pass that, I'll be on a list of candidates they'll look at when positions for ambulance work open up!
Thanks for listening. Morpho out.
I don't know exactly why it started -- it just... did. All I know is that for years my life has been a daily struggle with obsessive, intrusive thoughts and random things causing me anxiety. I'm a total perfectionist about the stupidest shit and I have to perform my weird rituals to make myself feel better and block out the groundless phobias vying for control of my mind, despite knowing for a fact it's all absurd and not based in any logic, yet unable to talk myself out of any of it, and living with near-constant anxiety about it all.
Yet... as much as I wanted it to stop, I couldn't talk to anyone about it. Knowing it was all so stupid and not based in reality made me feel a sense of shame and guilt about it all. That, and frankly, when the average person thinks of OCD, they think of one person: Monk. A fictional character whose symptoms are played up for the sake of comedy. As much as I honestly enjoy that show, it's nothing like reality. But it's hard to explain that when half the internet thinks they're "sooooo OCD LOL" because they like things neat or some stupid shit. So because of the guilt, and not wanting people to think I'm Monk, I never talked to anyone about it and simply dealt with it alone.
I've tried very, very hard to fight it on my own -- trying to block out the thoughts and delay or deny my urges to perform some compulsive behavior, be it hand-washing, biting my lips or cheeks, re-doing whatever I just did -- but it's all failed. In all honesty, part of why I started my EMT training was because I hoped it'd serve as exposure therapy. You know, go out into the field and make contact with all the sickies, but know it's okay because we take precautions. But... no good. I did at least discover I love this field, though, and I'm sticking with it regardless, so something positive did come from it. (I have news related to this, by the way.)
Eventually I got tired enough of dealing with it that, after talking to a friend who began undergoing successful treatment for the same problem, I finally talked to my parents about it and sought treatment for it. Yesterday I finally visited a psychiatrist and was officially diagnosed with OCD, and I was given a prescription for Prozac. I'm really thankful I can finally begin treating my condition with professional help. The timing is excellent, as well -- Monday I was contacted by my agency's Human Resources and asked to sign up for their Advanced EMT pre-employment exam, so when I pass that, I'll be on a list of candidates they'll look at when positions for ambulance work open up!
Thanks for listening. Morpho out.
Tourette Syndrome is another example, everything tends to think it's the random spouting of obscenities thanks to media. However, when I watched a special on it several years ago and found out that it has physical symptoms that can lead up to death I stopped making any sort of joke about the condition at all. OCD is the same thing thanks to another show. It can afflict almost anyone at any time because it involves the brain and can be very debilitating. Having to give in to the overwhelming compulsion to count the tiles on the bathroom wall can leave you embarrassed and late and whatever but not giving into it can produce very serious side affects.
I'm glad you're looking into getting it controlled and fuck anyone who jokes about it or sniggers over it. The pattern I've seen is if it is laugh worthy in a comedy then it is a serious problem in reality. You're taking control of a problem so that is something to be proud of in my book.
I wish you luck on the advanced EMT position :) I'm sure you'll do freaking awesome!
Also, good on you for recognizing it and seeking help when you needed it. Far too many think they can go it alone and suffer because of it.
Also, I'm glad to hear about the job opportunity! It's always nice to see hard work pay off.
Take care until next time,
-Arokh
And thank you! I'm pretty excited about the opportunity, myself~ I really wanted to work on an ambulance, so maybe that door is opening sooner than expected! ^.=.^
And thanks for the good luck as well! I should do fine, considering I aced the class, but a little extra support never hurts :3