PSA
11 years ago
General
Ayyyeee
Ok You guys, I know sometimes people are just shitty people. I know sometimes you want to express that this person has been shitty. But it is NEVER OK to tell someone to kill themselves or get raped. That is NOT COOL. NEVER EVER EVERRR. If you just say "you're kinda being shitty and this is why" It is more than likely that they will retort. Arguing (imo) should never be about winning or having the wittiest comebacks, or making people feel bad about themselves. it should be (imo) about furthering oneself and broadening perspective. Obviously this method feels a lot less effective, but calling someone a bitch doesn't even tell them why you're doing these things. This has been a psa. please remember not to be a downright jerk!
Treznor1138
~treznor1138
I understand what you're saying but tough love works on some rather than others. I guess depending on the situation and how well you know a person should be taken into account. But you're right in regards to the majority.
Apollopup
~apollopup
OP
Well tough love is one thing but just calling someone a bunch of profanities doesn't do much for anyone really. (This is in regards to the coffee incident)
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