Updates: sorry I have been absent...SUPER STRESSED
11 years ago
Sorry I have been absent around here. I am trying to get back in the grove of things.
I got in a pretty bad place and am super stressed with all the wedding plans.
I got in a pretty bad place and am super stressed with all the wedding plans.
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It's one of the biggest decisions you'll ever make and it's one of the most specials days you'll ever live, but despite that, it's a BIG decision, and of course, you wanna get everything JUUUUUUST Right, so it is almost always stressful.
(Of all the weddings I've ever been to or heard of, only ONE was NOT stressful)
About the best thing I could offer for that is: keep it simple.
It's supposed to be an exceedingly HAPPY time, so when things get to be too much, step back, get a bigger perspective on it, and ask if the overwhelming minutia is really worth it.
There's a lot of good things to be said for keeping it simple.
Hopefully this helps at least a little; seeing friends happy makes ME happy.
That said, we all understand that you're almost certain to be super-busy until at least a week or two after, so please TRY to keep in touch and keep us all updated, but if you can't..... we understand.