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11 years ago
♥|| My Dears ||♥
I guess giving people compliments suddenly insinuates you're trying to flirt with them?
I just had a user block me because I said he was adorable. I say a lot of people are adorable.
It's not meant as a flirt, but as a compliment. 8|;
And then when I tried to apologize for seeming to make them uncomfortable (on another account, I know I know bad me) they decided to point out the fact that they were married.
LOL Congrats?
... I wasn't aware compliments = OMG FLIRTING I TOTALLY WANT TO GET IN YOUR PANTS.
I've no interest in flirting with random strangers.
I flirt with my S.O. and I flirt with a few of my close friends. (in different ways I might add, but still)
And besides that, isn't it sorta against the rules to comment/note someone AND THEN block them so they can't reply at all?
Aren't you supposed to just... block them without saying anything?
That would have been the more mature action in this case. And I also wouldn't have been any the wiser or tried to apologize. lol
On another note, if I get suspended, then you know why. I circumvented a block to apologize.
I just had a user block me because I said he was adorable. I say a lot of people are adorable.
It's not meant as a flirt, but as a compliment. 8|;
And then when I tried to apologize for seeming to make them uncomfortable (on another account, I know I know bad me) they decided to point out the fact that they were married.
LOL Congrats?
... I wasn't aware compliments = OMG FLIRTING I TOTALLY WANT TO GET IN YOUR PANTS.
I've no interest in flirting with random strangers.
I flirt with my S.O. and I flirt with a few of my close friends. (in different ways I might add, but still)
And besides that, isn't it sorta against the rules to comment/note someone AND THEN block them so they can't reply at all?
Aren't you supposed to just... block them without saying anything?
That would have been the more mature action in this case. And I also wouldn't have been any the wiser or tried to apologize. lol
On another note, if I get suspended, then you know why. I circumvented a block to apologize.
People I Look Up To:
(my friends should also be on this list, but it's redundant to repeat them lol)
Not even kidding. Some guys think that because you're looking at them and you have titties, that you're saying, "Hello! I want to have sex with you!" LOL
I'm trying to wrap my brain around that logic. Seriously.
I simultaneously feel bad for making him uncomfortable, and flabbergasted and frustrated because of the way it was handled.
Their first reaction is the negative one. Or they automatically assume the worse of people. Which is a little sad. Half the time it makes me wonder if they're already walking on eggshells because of something else and, in your case, don't want to end up making it seem like they're doing anything bad...if that makes sense?
Like how you can tell a dude's got an overbearing partner if, no matter what you say, he automatically has to let you know that he's taken, or put his partner into the conversation where they weren't already in it. Or if the guy's done wrong in the past and now he's walking on eggshells so his partner doesn't think he's dong it again, which leads him to growing paranoid about ALL interaction, including the ones he should be about.
But I have seen quite a few people around here just completely lose their cool because someone joked about something, or said something nice, or anything. lol
And it's just always confusing to me. Because I'm not even that way.
I sorta get it, and yet I don't.
It is possible that he was already walking on eggshells because of something.
But. IDEK. I'm just sitting here flabbergasted and going "Wow..."
Every time it happens I'm like "hoooooly crap"
How does saying someone is adorable, comes off as flirting? Or in this extreme case"I wanna jump into your pants!"
If the person was mature and reasonable, they would have at least let you reply...
If they don't know you, they should not assume right away that you're some creeper immediately by saying that.
They blocked you...hahaha.
Not worth the fight or time on that one.
If anything I hope you day goes a little better...
And I am sure you are not going to get suspended.
That right there was what I was thinking. I'm actually nice to someone and they flip their shit. lol
And I don't know? I guess even if I'd said "IDK you don't look bad to me really" they'd still think I was flirting.
Where in that one would just be an observation. Along the lines of "I'm not attracted, but you're not ugly."
And, exactly. If they were mature, imo, they'd have let me reply and apologize without having to account hop.
I almost didn't account hop, but I felt bad for making him uncomfortable. And now it's an entirely useless effort. Since I'm blocked on the other account too. lol
The way I would have reacted, was to let the person reply after saying I was uncomfortable.
My day is already better since I've been able to just talk about this frustrating incident.
I'll be more careful with my compliments I guess.