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11 years ago
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The good
Me and my boyfriend have been saying for a bout a year and a half and we want to move in together but it wouldn’t just be us a good friend of ours will be joining us in an apartment yay , we have never faught we always get a long so no problem right ?
The bad
My boyfriends parents are old school christans no living together before marriage deal I feel they basically hate me also as they always seem cold and blunt around me , they control everything with him which is why he feels trapped if he leaves with me he won’t have a car no phone and no help finishing college , thing is also he’s an only child :/ so we are trying to figure out the best solution we both want to leave we all have the money / means to
He’s turning 21 this September they still treat him like an 8 yr old
I’m 18 I don’t know what to do , I told him to stand up to fight them and what not but I just do t know anymore … I feel like I’m tearing the family apart kinda :/
Help please
Me and my boyfriend have been saying for a bout a year and a half and we want to move in together but it wouldn’t just be us a good friend of ours will be joining us in an apartment yay , we have never faught we always get a long so no problem right ?
The bad
My boyfriends parents are old school christans no living together before marriage deal I feel they basically hate me also as they always seem cold and blunt around me , they control everything with him which is why he feels trapped if he leaves with me he won’t have a car no phone and no help finishing college , thing is also he’s an only child :/ so we are trying to figure out the best solution we both want to leave we all have the money / means to
He’s turning 21 this September they still treat him like an 8 yr old
I’m 18 I don’t know what to do , I told him to stand up to fight them and what not but I just do t know anymore … I feel like I’m tearing the family apart kinda :/
Help please
I'm pregnant with his child though, and we've been dating for four years, so that's a little different. I don't know what to tell you honestly. Maybe you need to have a "come to Jesus" meeting of sorts with his parents? I know that when I talk to my boyfriend's parents, we tend to at least agree to disagree.
But thanks for the advice
See, I'm not Christian, I'm Wiccan. So I don't worship the zombie Jew either lol
But talking to them seems like the thing to do
yeah, mostly, I just use my skype for rp and for talking with my out of state friends, so I don't really have that problem XD
As far as what to do... If he looks like he's about to graduate, Go on with the moving. The control thing is always hard to get away from... but I think you two could do it. To be sure,you aren't the one who's causing the damage. Their lack of ability to change I'm sure has caused plenty to tension before. It bugs me that they could turn the "love switch" off on their child because they want to seek their own path. I think the best realistic option to do would be to sit down with them and try to hash out some kind of agreement like solara said. But I do wish the best for you two.
But sad thing though there is no middle ground with his parents it's there way or no way