Then go to this site! My mate  Hundaro created it and updates it daily. Very informative and a good read. It is always nice to at least know this stuff people! The aim is to educate and to help people. I know many people with parafilias feel isolated and strange, but it is not as strange as you may think.

http://www.onemoredeviant.com/

Plus it has a cool name. Check it out!