Gay ppl hating on straights and woman viciously attacking men for being attracted to another woman at work for just looking at them the wrong way. Lots of bullshit. Don't even get me started on how easy it is for woman to get away with getting men in trouble over sexual harassment ether while the woman does it and everyone just fucking jokes and smiles about it.

I'm not just talking about women attacking men for being attracted to other women.
I'm talking about women attacking men because they can. They've got it in their head that it's empowerment. That's why a woman can punch her boyfriend/husband, and other women will cheer her on, when it is absolutely abuse, and a man can't do the same.
Sexual harassment and the way women can take advantage of rape claims are absolutely terrible. The fact that men can't call rape, and "can't be raped" is disgusting. It's not a joke. It's not something to smile about. I think it's something that needs to be sorted out now.

Well we still have the thought process that woman are 100% innocent and can do no harm and needs to change first before anything else right now. I mean were still easier to convict a man for anything over a woman.

The hate never really went away, at least from what I've seen. It was just a bit more elusive for a time, but sadly.. it survived. No matter what happens there's always going to be the bad with the good, people cling to what they believe is right, even though to you and I it's viewed as wrong. It's true that people like to be unique, they want to stand out from the crowd and be their own person, but it's also true that in doing so that they're pushing others away.

Everything in this world has it's strengths and weaknesses, that includes races, genders, sexualities, literally everything. It's what makes them unique and special. People seem to pick out their strengths.. and other's weaknesses, and focus on them more often than not. Either that or they don't understand something, and it's just plain human nature that when someone is confused by something to be cautious of it, that leads to blocking it off, which leads to misunderstandings, which leads to dislike, and eventually hate. Those who think you can't praise someone else's race, or their heritage, or culture.. In my eyes personally that's wrong. You should be able to praise whatever you'd like.
It's one thing to judge others poorly, it's another to praise them, if you want to celebrate in their holiday or appreciate their styles or have anything to do with their culture you should be completely allowed to without so many walls and people telling you no.
Honestly.. who gives a flying fluff what race anyone is! What does it matter? Whats it matter if you're gay, straight, bi, this race, that race, whatever! I don't understand why people cling to such old disrespectful thoughts towards others, judging them on things that don't even matter. It's really sad, to be honest. Think of what a wonderful place the world could be if only people would get along, not worry about things that didn't concern them, and just let others live their lives the way they wanted to be lived. As of late I've heard so much anti-gay talk. Or possibly more just that now that it's out there for me, I've been listening more. But either way.. Who cares who marries who? Are they marrying you? Nope. So why is it their problem? They should just leave well enough alone and let others be happy.

And I don't know much about the whole feminism stuff, but I have heard bits here and there. Honestly.. I couldn't care less what gender people are, they're people. Women and Men make the same mistakes, make the same choices, and do the same stuff day after day. Neither is perfect and neither is better than the other, it's just people like to point out other's flaws before they point at themselves. It's alright to be behind a cause, but once you take it past the point of being acceptable all you do is hurt it, and people seem to forget where the line stand and just keep on going more often than not. With many things.

The main thing I've seen is when people get backed into a corner they tend to lash out at others, try to blame something or someone else. When one of the "Groups" is backed up and blamed by another they lash out at another, then they do it to another, and so on, and so forth, in a chain that doesn't really seem to have an end. Personally to me there are no groups, there are no lines, there are no differences. Everybody and everything is unique in it's own way, especially people. And for everything in this world there is an opposite. For happy there's sad, for hot there's cold, and for every person on the planet there's more than likely there's somebody else with the exact opposite opinions. I've grown to accept that. Somewhere in the world there's someone, maybe someone's that despise everything I love and love everything I despise, there's nothing I can do about it, there's no reason for me to get involved, I don't know them nor do I want to, and their business is their own. If people could learn to mind their own business and just love each other for just being themselves instead of not being like them, and be open-minded instead of shutting themselves off to things they don't understand I think the world would be much friendlier towards each other.

It seems like people deliberately go out of their way to drive in the wedges that tear people apart that made them upset in the first place, and until they can forget the past and just be kind to each other, it's not going to stop. Maybe someday in the future it'll get more manageable and people will be able to live without being in fear of who they are and there will be no conflict over being unique in the world. But until then we've just got to put up with it and just live our own lives despite them.

And Toby, you yourself are a wonderful person, you're sweet, you're kind, you're considerate and generous~ You've always been there for me when I need a friend and you've always been there for others too, to my knowledge, and you've just made the world an all around better place~ If more people were as sweet as you maybe the world wouldn't be so hostile. I hope you never change who you are and that you always stay so sweet and kind and amazing~ <3 *Huggles*

"I hate hate. "

well said

there's a mentality people have to hate those who hated them but, many don't see that line when they take it too far. and become the very monster they were pushed around by.

then they end up attack those who actually supported their cause.

an example is, you know how many straight people are fighting FOR gay rights? people don't need to be part of a cause to fight for it. be careful who you attack people, friendly fire is a thing.

have no respect to people who are so simple minded they just lash out and blindly attack others, regardless of their reasoning.



blind hate in general needs to die but it never will...

Consider that for the majority of human history, starvation, droughts and war were much more common than they are now, as little as 200 or so years ago, it was not uncommon for crop shortages and unrest to wipe out millions of people. This is still a reality for at least half of the 6-7 billion people around right now.

I really don't care what anyone says, but in comparison to the majority of people on the planet, if you're posting on the internet and you're not completely homeless you most likely are doing better off than the majority of people on the planet. If you were born into a family that lives in a house with more than 2 or so rooms, you're doing a lot better than most people on this earth.

After spending a few years doing things like social services in immigration and social care, and them even some humanitarian work in Africa I found something very odd, people over there, in horrible conditions, can often still be happy, whereas people that I would have thought were under much less stress (back home) were often very unhappy, including me some time after I went back home. Obviously this isn't representative of everyone ( and I'm not at all implying that ) but it was interesting

When people are not put under massive stress from the threat of war, violence, starvation, piracy, enslavement, bandits or whatever else people have been putting up for up until the past 30 years or so, other kinds of stress begin to become more prominent among the average person. Social pressures, racism, internalized hatred, depression (and a whole range of other conditions) become a much more focused area of social health.
Especially with large amounts of unemployment or social stress, the actual reality of the world and the practical limitations of society end up being lost on some people, increased crime, general misanthropy and nihilistic attitudes among people in general seem to be very common in the last decade or so.

After going through the mental illness route in health personally for forms of extreme depression (in the UK) I can confirm that I don't really think anyone has the answers that people, especially in the trans* communities are looking for other than 'deal with it'.
Not only that, but unfortunately there are many people out there which are more than willing to try anything to blame their problems on 'society' or to use a condition to manipulate people aggressively, often as an excuse to not do anything.
People who are depressed or disturbed are also much more likely to unwittingly use things like emotional manipulation or violence on people out of desperation.

tl;dr version here

Hatred hasn't gone away or got worse, it's merely that the internet has become extremely mainstream and obvious to the average person, opening channels up for everyone in society, including those who are severely mentally ill (or, quite a lot of genuinely disturbed and/or manipulative people)
Practically embodied by the whole 'die cis scum' nonsense, people who are severely mentally ill or manipulative trying to manipulate others, using an illness as a defence against others.

A big part of this that I've seen extensively both by talking to people and my experience in the totally broken system that is the social care system is that there are plenty of 'millitant' people out there focused on feminism, racism, homophobia and everything remotely similar that are often equally as hateful and self-interested as the society they're supposedly fighting against. Especially a lot of the shit concerning some 'social justice warriors', there are a lot of unpleasant people on the internet that are more than ready to aggressively attack people and feign mental illness for whatever reason.

There are people who do this who don't use any excuses all over the place, which is in a way much less damaging as it can be simply regarded as idiots stirring up drama, but people who attack people under a cause? Historically that's always been much harder to ignore, and that's exactly what many feminist and trans groups on various sites seem to be doing, because they certainly aren't doing anything to help themselves.

People will always do this because people like to gain a perceived advantage and control, whether that means actually taking control, or causing someone else to lose control.

Plus, I mean, conflict is the world. Everything is conflict, nature, human social interaction, industry, economy, politics, it just depends if you see conflict as hatred or not.