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Oooooh boyy... Some drama just started at my house
11 years ago
Okay so I just sparked some drama at my house.
A little back note, for the past 3 days, I've been woken up by my mom yelling at my little brother, and before that, she just yelled about everything. I've had it with the drama. It's either yelling at my little brother[Age 8, might I add], yelling at my dad, yelling at stupid shit, my parents arguing. A few weeks back my dad threw his wedding ring at my mom.
After discussing with only four people[My two sisters, a good friend, and my mate], I finally decided that this week I'm moving out. This morning I went to the post office to put in my change of address, lied and told my dad I was going to Circle K and was talking with a friend which was taking so long[Which was sort of true].
But I'm going to move in with my mate in Pittsburgh. I'm sick of the drama here, and after bringing up this to my dad first[Since my dad takes everything a little better], he suggested I tell mom. I did so, she got pissed that I pointed out I was sick of the constant yelling, stormed off to her room and slammed the door.
A big reason that I know they don't want me to leave is because I'm a source of money to them, and a free babysitter. My only source of income right now is from my employer, paying my wages, and that's the exact same every two weeks because I'm paid on a bi-weekly basis under salary continuation. I was injured at work on the 5th of May. It was a spinal injury after falling off a ladder at work. Hell, I just had 40 dollars, spent 10 of that on myself, and my dad took the other 30 dollars to buy weed. I do understand he's got a medical condition and it helps the pain, but seriously, you borrow money from your son who makes a a bit less than you, wouldn't you think to pay him back? My mom is usually the one that pays me back when he borrows money from me. It's either weed, gas, or cigarettes. But for me, I'm just a source of income and they don't want to lose the tax credit, the more food from food pantries, and everything else they get from me living under their roof.
Maybe I want to live on my own as an adult. I don't want to keep living under my parents roof for my entire adult life. They're talking about buying a house with space for me, but that defeats the purpose of me wanting my own life.
I'm sorry to vent out to you guys.. you shouldn't have to put up with me, I just needed somewhere to type this..
-Cris out
A little back note, for the past 3 days, I've been woken up by my mom yelling at my little brother, and before that, she just yelled about everything. I've had it with the drama. It's either yelling at my little brother[Age 8, might I add], yelling at my dad, yelling at stupid shit, my parents arguing. A few weeks back my dad threw his wedding ring at my mom.
After discussing with only four people[My two sisters, a good friend, and my mate], I finally decided that this week I'm moving out. This morning I went to the post office to put in my change of address, lied and told my dad I was going to Circle K and was talking with a friend which was taking so long[Which was sort of true].
But I'm going to move in with my mate in Pittsburgh. I'm sick of the drama here, and after bringing up this to my dad first[Since my dad takes everything a little better], he suggested I tell mom. I did so, she got pissed that I pointed out I was sick of the constant yelling, stormed off to her room and slammed the door.
A big reason that I know they don't want me to leave is because I'm a source of money to them, and a free babysitter. My only source of income right now is from my employer, paying my wages, and that's the exact same every two weeks because I'm paid on a bi-weekly basis under salary continuation. I was injured at work on the 5th of May. It was a spinal injury after falling off a ladder at work. Hell, I just had 40 dollars, spent 10 of that on myself, and my dad took the other 30 dollars to buy weed. I do understand he's got a medical condition and it helps the pain, but seriously, you borrow money from your son who makes a a bit less than you, wouldn't you think to pay him back? My mom is usually the one that pays me back when he borrows money from me. It's either weed, gas, or cigarettes. But for me, I'm just a source of income and they don't want to lose the tax credit, the more food from food pantries, and everything else they get from me living under their roof.
Maybe I want to live on my own as an adult. I don't want to keep living under my parents roof for my entire adult life. They're talking about buying a house with space for me, but that defeats the purpose of me wanting my own life.
I'm sorry to vent out to you guys.. you shouldn't have to put up with me, I just needed somewhere to type this..
-Cris out
I sure hope things work out for you, bud and no, even though we've literally just 'met', I wouldn't think anything less of ya! (HUGs)
Get out of your toxic situation and make your own way.
There are people sending good thoughts your way, so try to stay positive, regardless of your circumstances.
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