This is very broad, so I will try to pinpoint some that are personally important to me. Be able to make me laugh and genuinely. Doesn't get embarrassed when out in public and I want to do something affectionate, like hold your hand. Potential to be a family man. I also look to see how they treat others, publicly, socially, and intimately. Independent, but humble enough to ask for help when needed. I dunno. I've never felt I was good as answering questions like these. XD;
I would love to know what kind of kinks you have that are considered "outlandish". Like, feet or micro or other sorta-stereotypical ones for the fandom, I guess. Or maybe you have one all of your own that doesn't have much of a name yet (like me with my poor bibliophilia).
If not that, then... do you ever talk to your stuffed animals when you're alone?
If not that, then... do you ever talk to your stuffed animals when you're alone?