Random Journal of My Thoughts
11 years ago
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If you have me on facebook you may have already seen this, but its crossed my mind and I don't know why but I felt like posting this here as well. Well here ya go
You know its kind of funny some of the things I think about.
Isn't it funny some of the ways that we meet our good friends. I mean, its like all chance. What if you decided you didn't want to go out that night, or for whatever reason happened to leave a little later, like so many little things could have cause you not to even know who each other are.
It even branches out to people you meet online. I know a few of my online friends, I've met, just by chance. They saw a comment I left, or something a long those sorts. Or I've seen a comment they left, noticed the common interests and continued talking with said person. Like what if I didn't pay attention to that comment, what if I didn't hit that one click to send the message. I most likely wouldn't know the people I know.
I've had many people who talk to me, and I enjoy talking to, but for whatever reason, decide to just start ignoring me. It kind of hurts, though. It may just be a friendship that I'm pursuing, but it would feel nice to get some sort of closure as to why this person doesn't want to talk to me. It really makes me sad, and I do get depressed and start to feel lonely.
I'm lucky, though. Most of my friends that I have, decided to contact me. And from then, decided that I was worth talking to more. Now for whatever reasons, I'm not sure, but I must say, I'm glad that I have the friends that I do. They make me happy and I'm real appreciative. When I'm down about the previous point, I try to think about this, the friends I have that do care about me.
NOTE: This is NOT meant as an attack towards anyone. This is just my thoughts put into words. Please don't feel like I'm talking about just one person. o.o
You know its kind of funny some of the things I think about.
Isn't it funny some of the ways that we meet our good friends. I mean, its like all chance. What if you decided you didn't want to go out that night, or for whatever reason happened to leave a little later, like so many little things could have cause you not to even know who each other are.
It even branches out to people you meet online. I know a few of my online friends, I've met, just by chance. They saw a comment I left, or something a long those sorts. Or I've seen a comment they left, noticed the common interests and continued talking with said person. Like what if I didn't pay attention to that comment, what if I didn't hit that one click to send the message. I most likely wouldn't know the people I know.
I've had many people who talk to me, and I enjoy talking to, but for whatever reason, decide to just start ignoring me. It kind of hurts, though. It may just be a friendship that I'm pursuing, but it would feel nice to get some sort of closure as to why this person doesn't want to talk to me. It really makes me sad, and I do get depressed and start to feel lonely.
I'm lucky, though. Most of my friends that I have, decided to contact me. And from then, decided that I was worth talking to more. Now for whatever reasons, I'm not sure, but I must say, I'm glad that I have the friends that I do. They make me happy and I'm real appreciative. When I'm down about the previous point, I try to think about this, the friends I have that do care about me.
NOTE: This is NOT meant as an attack towards anyone. This is just my thoughts put into words. Please don't feel like I'm talking about just one person. o.o
Whew! that was a close one. I thought you was gonna turn into that one guy from that Facebook scary story.
Is because I just get busy.
Work, school, hanging with other people at times...
Life just gets distracting.
But it doesn't mean we don't care about each other.
However... some people do have intentions.
And that's what causes some friendships (and even relationships) to dwindle to nothing.