**Update** coming out as trans
11 years ago
So..I came out a week or so ago to my friends and for the most part it's went ok.
I've lost a few friendships because of it but...I guess they just wherent my friends then *shrug*
I told my parents a couple days ago and i was completely shocked that my mom didn't freak out.
She like kind of...."Oh, I didn't know. We'll talk about is later" (i told her over txt because I was too scared to tell her in parson)
But she's hasn't talked to me about it yet so I really have no clue what she is thinking ://
My dad on the other hand...Well... I'm not sure if he thought I was joking or something.
He still calls me 'Girl' like he always has and i keep trying to correct him but im too scared too.... ://
*sighs*
well anyways...
Update yaay :33
I came out a few months ago to the entire family, mum was told in 2010 who ignored it. My dad was verbally abusive without knowing so I went through hell with anxiety and fear. I will say things are good and slowly coming along now.
I can help with anything, even binders and packers.
Feel free to email me yahoo also has a IM.
I'm at Iden_bat[at]yahoo.com
I see a therapist uh whom ever which you need to do for T and I've established a gender youth group with her.
but i totally understand, my parents still mess up sometimes, even though I've actively been going with male pronouns for about 2 years or 3
And I'm glad that some of your friends understood and stick with you still.
I know the feeling a bit when I came out telling my mother and father about being Asexual (Aromantic specifically). My mother was okay with it (she's always so open, thank goodness!--especially since my brother's also pansexual and has a boyfriend--she told me about that one actually--my father would disown my brother immediately). As for my father when I told him about me being Asexual (well first time I mentioned it but not saying I was one), he said they didn't exist. Second time, I actually said I was one, he was confused and I had to explain it to him and he didn't really say much. Third time when I mentioned it, he didn't seem too pleased and I had to re-explain it to him because he'd forgotten. I think he still thinks we don't exist and would rather I go out and get married to some rich man to take care of me and have grandchildren (I'm not having any and I told him so). Yeesh.