Do you even yiff?
11 years ago
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I'm a very cuddle/yiff-friendly kinda guy, I will admit it. But I'm also not a whore - I don't go banging guys I don't know well. I like to chat with and spend time with a new friend first, so we have a chance to know if we enjoy each other's company. And then if all's well, let the male urges take over! :3
With that said, over the years I've encountered a few guys who like to cuddle, but there's one other factor involved: alcohol and/or drugs. It seems these people must "get into the mood" before engaging in said cuddling. Which begs the question: "Do you even yiff?" Do you actually WANT to cuddle, or is this something you DON'T really want to do unless you've tricked/poisoned your brain? In my honest opinion, if you have to resort to alcohol or drugs to feel comfortable around someone, then you're just lying to yourself. That's not the real "you." It's unfortunate, because there are guys out there like me who genuinely enjoy cuddling, but they get mixed into the "cuddle posers" group who require being under the influence.
With that said, over the years I've encountered a few guys who like to cuddle, but there's one other factor involved: alcohol and/or drugs. It seems these people must "get into the mood" before engaging in said cuddling. Which begs the question: "Do you even yiff?" Do you actually WANT to cuddle, or is this something you DON'T really want to do unless you've tricked/poisoned your brain? In my honest opinion, if you have to resort to alcohol or drugs to feel comfortable around someone, then you're just lying to yourself. That's not the real "you." It's unfortunate, because there are guys out there like me who genuinely enjoy cuddling, but they get mixed into the "cuddle posers" group who require being under the influence.
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