One of my roommates has a boyfriend. He is here every day. every single day. He spends the night every day. And lately he has had mail being delivered to our apartments. I live in student sponsored housing. it's pretty much dorms for my school. these apartments has rules such as, no over night guests. Of course most students ignore the rules when it's okay with the rest of the roommates. Last night my roommates boyfriend was in an alcoholic rage. we got him out of the apartment but he was banging on the door and causing a huge scene.

Today, I come home and he is back in our apartment acting as if nothing had happened. I tell my roommate that I don't want him spending the night anymore. That I don't feel comfortable having him in our home anymore. Instead of understanding she argues with me pulling the "I live here" argument. I live here too and He DOESN'T. He shouldn't be here to begin with. But she just argued with me and giving me shit. Basically not caring that i was very uncomfortable with him staying, just being incredibly inconsiderate, Now, I just went through an emotional breakdown because angry drunk men is a trigger for a really horrible memory I suppress and it came out because while i was in my room trying to keep calm, i can hear his voice through the walls. It's pretty much like PTSD, the memory plays through my head over and over again.

Now, i don't know what to do. Should I report her and try to get her kicked out or should i fight through it since I'm going to be moving out by the end of September? All i know right now is that I can't stay in this apartment right now. I'm going to go for a walk or something to get the memory out of my conscious.