Why does everyone assume the Nice Guy is a manipulative scumbag who hates women because they won't return their affections? Does anyone stop to think that not all men think alike? That some men might actually be looking for a loving relationship and not just sex, and are crushed when they get rejected? It's probably not a good idea to react in anger but maybe some men just don't know how else to express their emotions.

It honestly hurts when I see people of both genders just assuming that. I was the "nice guy" when I was in high school, but I wanted a relationship. I wanted to have someone who would hold my hand in the hallway, kiss me goodbye when I went home at the end of the day, someone that I could share my life with. Yet all my attempts failed, and it hurt, and it made me angry, but mostly it mad me feel worthless. That's not a good combination.

Honestly, women can't expect men to just ignore the fact that they got rejected. Are we not supposed to have emotions? Honestly, that's how it feels sometimes, and I'm tired of it.

When is it all just going to stop?