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Rant (guy problems)
11 years ago
So I've been talking to this guy I met back in July, told him how I felt about him and the feelings were mutual. (Hooray a guy that likes me!! I haven't dating in quite a while) We live only 2 hours away from each other... So we talked and got to know each other more then after I've REALLY started to like him, he says how he doesn't like long distance relations (which I can understand to some degree) we then agree to just be friends until we finish college.... The following weeks we still keep in touch, and he starts to make conversations go south (if you get what I'm saying) and so I go along and it happened every now and then. Always with him starting the conversation and ending when I change the topic. I was planning on going to visit him so I could cook him a dinner as a 'thank you' gift for letting me stay at his place for the weekend letting him know what I was planning. Until he decides to not reply at all for about 2 days all I'm saying to him is "morning" "sleep well" and "just texting you to let you know I was thinking of you". When he did finally reply he said he was avoiding my texts bc "I'm growing to attached" and that "there's nothing between us. We are nothing. We're not dating, we're not a thing, we are just good friends." I replied with I know... The he continues saying I'm bothering him (though he was the one that texted me last night while he was wasted) so I simply said that he can text me whenever he wants and that I wouldn't text unless he started the conversation.
Even though I know we're just friends, when did planing to visit someone and cook for them become 'to attached'? If that's so then I guess I should start living under a rock, telling everyone to leave me alone and that I'm not going to cook anymore for anyone. (I love cooking and baking btw especially for friends and family)... So I plan on hitting up another friend that lives down there and seeing what their up to and if their up for hanging out for a weekend since I lost where I was going to stay.
And people always ask me why I'm single? This is why... Bc guys can be freaking retards, oblivious to what they really are saying. I believe they prefer thinking with their other head most of the time....
--end rant--
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