i'm terrible at making friends
11 years ago
General
And here is some of the reasons i think why.
Vore.
Hate RP
very very dark humor.
Can't hold conversations
Social phobia (don't really like talking to people for a large amount of time and like to be on my own)
Bipolar (i get angry very fast)
Depression
i could list many many things but i don't really want to drag on
it's more of a vent.
And yes i understand friends don't magical y happen, you have to earn friendship and to earn friendship you have to have contact with the person before hand - Something i'm bad at because when i approach someone they seem like they don't care so i just end up sitting here waiting for things to happen,
This entire thing does not help when i have really bad trust issues
i only seem to get along with people who have very dark humor and i really want to change that but a personality can't be changed easily & i don't think it will.
If you click this journal thinking you want to start shit with me, Please kindly fuck off and click that unwatch button
off to go play games i guess
Journal may be deleted idk.
Vore.
Hate RP
very very dark humor.
Can't hold conversations
Social phobia (don't really like talking to people for a large amount of time and like to be on my own)
Bipolar (i get angry very fast)
Depression
i could list many many things but i don't really want to drag on
it's more of a vent.
And yes i understand friends don't magical y happen, you have to earn friendship and to earn friendship you have to have contact with the person before hand - Something i'm bad at because when i approach someone they seem like they don't care so i just end up sitting here waiting for things to happen,
This entire thing does not help when i have really bad trust issues
i only seem to get along with people who have very dark humor and i really want to change that but a personality can't be changed easily & i don't think it will.
If you click this journal thinking you want to start shit with me, Please kindly fuck off and click that unwatch button
off to go play games i guess
Journal may be deleted idk.
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Hate RP - I don't hate RP, but I don't really do it.
very very dark humor. - Dark?
Can't hold conversations - I'm the same here
Social phobia (don't really like talking to people for a large amount of time and like to be on my own) - This is me to a T
Bipolar (i get angry very fast) - ...wow, yeah same here
Depression - Ditto.
Are you me?
why you hack me D:
At very least, even though I dont speak with you much, I still like to leave my amusing little comments and most definately still support what you do :D
Hate RP - Love RP, but i don't mind that
very very dark humor - Again, I'm ok witht hat
Can't hold conversations - Sometimes I'm the same
Social phobia (don't really like talking to people for a large amount of time and like to be on my own) - Same here unless those people are those I really trust
Bipolar (i get angry very fast) - I'm used to it, so it's not a problem
Depression - I'm always trying to cheer up friends with depression
love vore too~
dark humor can be fun too X3
anyways, putting that out there if you like~
*tight hug*
I dont think any of the things on that list are reasons to not like you, I love vore too, an I've heard your dark humor. It's funny. ^_^
Even though I love to rp, i don't force it and i understand why some dont like it. I don't get upset about that. That would be silly
As for the vore and dark humour I've never personally found it that bad at all though saying that I'm probably just as bad sometimes. Also you never seem that bad on Twitter I don't think. Also loved the random pic of you eating everything on it, very cute XD.
Anyway I digress, as for the making friends I think it just happens sometimes and I'm always up for making new friends and will chat to you on Twitter when I see ya and have something daft to say since that's what twitter is for.
In the very, very few times I did speak to you (all in journals), you didn't seem like a bad person at all. Just an average person, who is human in nature.
YIFF YIFF *licks paws* =^.^= HI HI *hug* how are you doing today hun? *slides paws down your crotch* MURR
RP is kind of annoying... except for fox curls. Dat shits adorable~ c:
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I've met at least 2 or 3 people that try to weasel art out of me cuz they're "broke".
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DRAW VORE NAO
<333
I have all of these vore sketches in my sketchbook lol.
I can relate to my problems with making friends. The last five has them.
And, RP...what does RP mean anyway?
By the way, are you sure your comfortable posting this?
Sucks at making friends.
Everybody wants to be his friend. XD
Hope responses here help you work out anything you think you want to work on
It takes me a while to become comfortable with someone, and until that point conversations can be very one sided...
I don't really know how to approach people that share the same interests as I do.
I'm not medically diagnosed with anything because I can't get tested but there are a few things I'm pretty sure I've pegged down.
Vore. - if it has a big tummy i like it. XD
Hate RP - ok, got me there. i love a good rp.
very very dark humor - meh, my ex had such a dark sense of humour that it was scary to talk to him. so you cant be that bad. hell, ive never seen you like that.
Can't hold conversations - thats allright, i made the three shyest people i know very talkative.
Social phobia (don't really like talking to people for a large amount of time and like to be on my own) - I may enjoy conversation, but i like to be alone too. i understand this one
Bipolar (i get angry very fast) - i know that feel. its just a case of understanding boundaries.
Depression - mine tends to be most noticable when im lonely. if you have the same thing, a good friend will make you feel better.
also, i read some previous comments, yes, i do like your art, but thats how i meet a lot of my friends. I admit i have no money, so there you go, wont get me asking for commissions i cant pay because you know i dont have the money :P
anyway, if ever you wanted to talk, im always on steam ^^ (uk timezone permitting anyway)
Hate RP: I only did it when I was like 14
very very dark humor.: same
Can't hold conversations: alcohol doesn't help
Social phobia (don't really like talking to people for a large amount of time and like to be on my own): alcohol fixes that
Bipolar (i get angry very fast): alcohol fixes that
Depression: Alcohol tends to numb that
I really dislike text-based line by line typefuckery. It's just annoying like damn maybe I got shit to do. Maybe I wanna go play vidya.
Look at all these fuckin video gays.
http://steamcommunity.com/id/smarticusws/
370 day(s) since last ban
hecler chet.
He deleted my entire friends list which had Criken and Bro Team on it. I still have Oats on there tho he added me back. I made an alt to play TF2 again.
Vore - I like, preferably soft.
Hate RP - I personally don't mind a good RP, but if you don't, then I won't try to do one with you.
Dark humor - I have a dry humor, so most jokes ether go over my head or are ignored.
Can't hold a conversation - I'm an introvert, so I don't talk with strangers unless required to, but with my small group of friends, I do a descent job.
Social phobia - Like I said, I'm an introvert.
Bipolar - I am stable as a rock emotionally, nearing apathy to be completely honest, so angry outbursts would leave me unfazed. However, I would avoid whatever caused it in the future, so as to not cause another.
Depression - Emotional rock, enough said. I would try my best to help someone suffering from depression out, but being an introvert, I don't have a good grip on the art of cheering people up.
There, I jumped on. It only confirmed what I already knew, we are different in some ways and similar in others. That's why I generally don't jump on bandwagons, it usually ends with what I first thought ending up correct.
Vore: Yeas for me, I like like it up to "medium" and like oral to infinity.
Hate RP: Well, I guess I can't help you here since I like it.
very very dark humor: Oh, I have no preference, but I have light humor.
Can't hold conversations: I can see that. I now understand you more, and though I can say you did unwatch me, I can see the underlying reason. Besides, I can be shy, but making an effort to hold a conversation here and in RL. No bad blood between us.
Social phobia (don't really like talking to people for a large amount of time and like to be on my own): I'm that way too, but getting out of it.
Bipolar (i get angry very fast): I know MANY others that are that way. Although they are Asperger's furs, they are no different-I get shouted a lot and some do overreact when they note me.
Depression: Ugh, I have the idea when my dad is chronically depressed.
So I can say that some of these things are nothing new to me, and yeah, there is the old adage of nobody's perfect.
Idk you're fat and ilu
ok lets face it you might not even walk away
i shouldn't post journals?
ok thanks.
Vore I don't really mind
if you can't hold conversations, I'll just do something random bound to start something.
Although I know how it feels to not really want to talk and just by myself, especially if the one you're 'talking' too won't stop once they start.
I don't have that many friends to begin with (online. IRL might as well be a joke) but when you're on THIS website, the thing that gets you the most "friends" is being able to draw your own shit. Makes sense being an art community but it pisses me off that I gotta draw/buy something with BOOBS to get peoples attention, even from my so-called friends.
"I sit and wait for things to happen". That's pretty much how my life has been socially. (online) It means more to be to be approached and acknowledge by someone that Im not boring or something even though Im distant with everyone. But even when Im approached I sometimes cant help and be like "the fuck do you want?" since I have a really negative output with people.
Having said all that, there are still people out there that will LIKE you for who you are and your flaws.
So yeah. Random passer-by sharing his thoughts. Hope this helped. If it makes you feel any better I've been on this fucking boat for over 7 years now. I don't know how Im still alive.
But I mean, who doesn't like time to themselves. I enjoy just doing things by myself and keeping myself entertained. I get quickly overwhelmed when more than one person wants to talk to me at a time. Which is why I hardly use IM type stuff anymore. People are too demanding socially fer me. Ha ha.
But even though yer all those things. I dig ya. I think yer a neat person, and like who you are, and wouldn't change ya fer nuthin'. ^u^ My favourite MzterBlooGlo. <3
Hate RP - I love it, but I don't mind that about you.
Very very dark humor - At least you have A sense of humor, but I don't mind that.
Can't hold conversations - So, you like short conversations. Yay for Twitter! ^_^
Social phobia (don't really like talking to people for a large amount of time and like To be on my own) - That doesn't sound like social phobia, that sounds like you're just an introvert. Nothing wrong with that. If you were social phobic you'd be like blushing or sweating or shaking and shy away. Again, yay for Twitter! ^_^
Bipolar (I get angry very fast) - So, I won't piss you off. Nothing wrong with that.
Depression - I'm always here for you.