Less tolerant furs
11 years ago
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what are you less tolerant about???
I am so confused what are you against to feel the need to put an icon on your FA
I am so confused what are you against to feel the need to put an icon on your FA
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The wording of that group name just makes them sound antagonistic unu
I met some people who are 'less tolerant furs' and are assholes who think people who are suicidal 'wont actually do it' and 'just want attention'
so bassically those people were ignorant jackasses
which sucks cuz some assholes could use some waterboarding for an attitude check
I don't agree with being tolerant of everything, like, I don't tolerate harassment, or pedophiles, or rapists. That doesn't make me intolerant though, it just makes me a decent person and I'm sure the "tolerant furs" group doesn't condone those people. The "less tolerant furs" group though.... you don't need to actively embrace everything that's not your cup of tea, but you don't need to put it down either.
Dunno, buncha d-bags imho.
Think about that.
Not saying people who suffer (I'm pretty sure this is fair use of this word) from those sorts of illnesses (pretty sure fair use of this word too) are bad people, but there are some things you keep to yourself or between you, your family, your close trusted friends, and your therapist. If none of the above are viable options, I'm sure there are specific forums for discussing those sorts of imbalances where the person is not upsetting the general public with what frankly we are programmed at an animal level to ostracize.
The desire for violence isn't exactly the same as say, the desire for an object or a person.
There are many MANY people who enjoy guro and as much as I am not into that shit, I'm glad they're spending their time drawing and animating it, not making snuff films or perpetrating real, non-fictional violence. That's why I prefer we drop 'demonisation' (a certain group of people are 'evil' for some sort of reason) and instead educate and intercept before violence can be perpetrated or planned. Isolation, depression and demonisation are a huge trigger for an individual to fall into violent behaviour afterall.
And I totally agree, those forums should be happening but in a less 'deep net' sort of way, which seems sketchier and less safe. And absolutely, any behaviour or discussion that is intimate or subjectively disturbing in any manner should be protected from the public as large, only because to force someone to experience an image, subject or behaviour is non-consensual breach of rights.
But it's one of those subjects that many have no definite answers on, because no one wants to delve into it I suppose
But isn't it strange that rape, murder and torture art is allowed on FA?
It's not exactly an uncommon line, I'm not saying it's right but it seems to be the standard. You'll see murder, torture, and even rape in hollywood blockbusters, not so much child molesting though, regardless of it all being fiction.
I mean it's a weird subject cuz I hate the idea of it in any sort of 'real' art, stuff that looks realistic or is too true to life. It does creep me out. But with anime, the cutification of drawn characters, things like size difference, adult ageplay, there are so many ways to consensually draw a scene with consenting adults but it looking different. Idk. I mean there IS sexual ageplay here on FA, the babyfur community seems to be a huge one.
I'm very confused where exactly anti-loli/shota art people draw their lines
Anyhow, I'm A-OK with size difference and regarding the adult ageplay, it's just that, adult ageplay. Adult, between consenting adults. I don't have any issues with it even if it's not my thing.
I am not okay with child characters engaging in sexual situations, via art or roleplay. I don't want to see it, and I don't see it on fa anymore, even out of the babyfur community. I'm well aware that that community still engages in it elsewhere, but I'm glad it's gone from here lol. I get that drawing it less realistically takes the edge off it, but I don't see a line between a cartoon child being molested, and a realistically rendered child being molested. Either way it's enjoyment of the same thing. I don't think we should be normalizing it, and I don't think it needs to be shared with the general public on such an accessible site.
I'm not even saying those people shouldn't be engaging in expressing through art, art is everyone's right and its content shouldn't be limited, but there is a degree of common sense that should be exercised in what we share in such a broad forum. If people feel compelled to indulge in pedophilia through art, they should have the decency to share it in a safe forum that was made for that purpose, rather than a highly public forum where minors are frankly abundant.
I agree some sexual fantasies that may bleed out of fantasy land, that should be a major cause for concern. But if someone likes the fictional idea of an occurance, sexual partner, object or activity done to them, has NO correllation to their real world views or ethics.
So possibly my view is just too limited, or maybe I'm just a bigoted asshole. The way I see it, even if somebody figures out how to lay eggs, or find a willing tentacle monster in real life, they aren't going to hurt anybody engaging in activities with those fetishes. Child molestation is all too real and possible a thing.
But I would very much prefer the subject was an open one that a person could feel safe to seek help rather than fester and then either lose control or kill themselves. But I think society is a long way from that, considering how misogynistic, racist and homophobic it still is.
Just because it's possible to go out a murder a load of people and do something unspeakable at the scene of the crime, doesn't really mean its highly likely to happen with anyone who ever feasibly imagines it. Or want to. I think it must take a very disturbed individual of some degree to perpetuate acts of violence that break through more than just the taboo of taking lives.
And to mirror that feeling, many people are born of XYZ sexuality and their beliefs systems and environmental values dictate it is a sickness and should be cured/curbed in some way so there's that.
Sex is a very strange drive, its so weird. And I am agreeing with you on the main point in all of this. But there is so many fetishistic behaviour that has the potential to be dangerous or violent. I guess I'm tired of 'PEDOPHILIA' being the modern time equivilant of Hyper Sensationalised Mob Mentality. Don't get me wrong, I get a red haze and I cry powerfully when I hear about the abuse of children. It's incomprehensible. But demonisation makes little sense to me as well. It's like a sort of 'SHE'S A WITCH' level of hysteria. It just...its foreboding.
I'm not trying to directly challenge you btw and if this subject matter makes you uncomfortable you have no obligation to engage in it to answer any discussion!
Like what if someone into that kink would want to be transformed into a child-like form but still be 'them' so to speak, and wanted to engage in sex. That doesn't sound like an issue, for either partner, as long as both are informed.
Yes the public should understand the difference between somebody who fantasizes, and somebody who acts.
Yes the public should understand that people can't help their desires.
Yes the public should understand that merely having those desires does not make you a bad person.
Still, the public should not have to be subjected to people expressing their desires towards socially unacceptable and dangerous fantasies, specifically ones as sensitive a subject as pedophilia through venues that host such vast general interest communities. It's self destructive behavior in my opinion, both to the individual, and to our culture.
Though, I'm also somebody who just doesn't share much personal information with strangers in the first place, so I guess I'm a bit on the conservative side about everything anyways.
Thanks for talking though, it's been really interesting talking to someone on the other side of the fence :>