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yes i am transgender
11 years ago
I was born female but my head tells me I should have been male. So yes I am going through gender therapy and working towards getting at least a partial transition. Partial meaning getting too surgery and starting T.
Now I mention this because today I posted another journal that mentioned my doctor referring me to a plastic surgeon to get a breast reduction/removal to assist with my back pain.
And someone, I don't know them personally not have I ever spoken to them or even seen their page. I don't even think they follow me. Sent me a note saying they were trans too. This is cool. I like meeting new trans people.
What they then proceeded to do was very offensive and uncalled for considering that we don't know each other and he has no idea what my medical background and history is.
This person literally said to me through several paragraphs that getting a transition is a mistake. That I should learn to "deal" with my current body and that all doctors are only letting me go through with this because they want their money....
BULLSHIT. If you are reading this don't contact me again, ever. My doctors care about me. Take extra time with me that they aren't getting paid for. I have my therapists personal phone number of I am having issues outside of her work hours and she wants only for me to be happy. She could care less about money. She doesn't even care if I pay my copay or not. She wants me to come to make sure I am doing okay.
Just because you didn't go through with T or a transition doesn't mean it is a mistake. It is a choice. My choice. I respect my body. But I cannot live in a skin that is not mine. I already have to deal with the fact that I am short and in constant pain. I can at least make other parts about my physical appearance more desirable to me.
So if you are reading this, and you know who you are. Don't contact me again. If you do I will report you.
Now I mention this because today I posted another journal that mentioned my doctor referring me to a plastic surgeon to get a breast reduction/removal to assist with my back pain.
And someone, I don't know them personally not have I ever spoken to them or even seen their page. I don't even think they follow me. Sent me a note saying they were trans too. This is cool. I like meeting new trans people.
What they then proceeded to do was very offensive and uncalled for considering that we don't know each other and he has no idea what my medical background and history is.
This person literally said to me through several paragraphs that getting a transition is a mistake. That I should learn to "deal" with my current body and that all doctors are only letting me go through with this because they want their money....
BULLSHIT. If you are reading this don't contact me again, ever. My doctors care about me. Take extra time with me that they aren't getting paid for. I have my therapists personal phone number of I am having issues outside of her work hours and she wants only for me to be happy. She could care less about money. She doesn't even care if I pay my copay or not. She wants me to come to make sure I am doing okay.
Just because you didn't go through with T or a transition doesn't mean it is a mistake. It is a choice. My choice. I respect my body. But I cannot live in a skin that is not mine. I already have to deal with the fact that I am short and in constant pain. I can at least make other parts about my physical appearance more desirable to me.
So if you are reading this, and you know who you are. Don't contact me again. If you do I will report you.
If you ever need any support you know where to find me~
Sorry I cared about other people and just wanted to stop them from making a mistake. It's wrong. How can someone who is trans talk about the surgery like it is wrong. I have not been able to become fully comfortable in this body so now I am moving to another method. With doctor approval.