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My love life...being single.
11 years ago
Welp...I messed up big time on my girlfriend (I had one in real life, she was 14 years old.) & I feel like a basturd. I didn't say to her in person as much as I should, "I love you", at all...it was mainly online. She lives at least 5-8 minutes away from my house...but she went on a cruise for Bermuda...& came back with another 16 year old boy from Lancaster, Pennsylvania...which makes no sense. Why doesn't this make any sense? This boy's mom won't let him have a permit, so he can't drive to see her, he lives miles away from her while I resign minutes from her house, he is 16 years old, like me! He comforted her on the cruise when she needed it...& I feel more than upset to this...I'm heartbroken. We had similarities...we both loved My Little Pony, we both liked the color purple, we both have the same glasses subscription (I think, we can see out of each other's glasses), & some other things. I don't want to be single...I want my girl back...& I'd actually fight this other boy for her just to win her heart back. Her split personality wants me to stop top asking about this & let it go, but she's all I think about.
Guys...what do you suggest I do? I feel lost, abandoned, & alone. I even feel depressed, & it's the bad kind, not the "I'm depressed, deal with it" type thing...I'm really depressed.
Guys...what do you suggest I do? I feel lost, abandoned, & alone. I even feel depressed, & it's the bad kind, not the "I'm depressed, deal with it" type thing...I'm really depressed.
I didnt think about this...but yeah...true too
but I would still at least apologize to her if I was you if you feel that you messed up in any way.
If she comes back, she comes back....if she doesnt, move on. There are other fillies out there for you to go after if she doesn't want to come back.
and if you screwed up in someway, go talk and apologize to her for whatever you did.
i wouldnt worry about it too much. Live your life and have fun and dont waste it trying to find something that is hard to find in the first place. Let it flow to you
She's gonna be a bit difficult at first then maybe she will mellow out and realize you are for her.
I seen one of your comments below that you helped her overcome her depression and cutting habits. Maybe you should remind her of that.
I cant tell you how many times my depression gets so bad that I pretty much shut out my mates and drive them nuts because my emotional issues and doubting my life...but it doesnt take much for them to just be there for me and to hold me close to ensure that I am special to them and that I am loved very much. If they didnt like it they would had been gone along time ago...but they stayed spite all the crap I put them through at times.
I really hope it does work out for you and her. Because if it doesnt, and she wants that other guy more than you and if it doesnt work out with them and she comes crawling back....it maybe too late to even really consider....you may have moved on and found another and she will regret it. but only time will tell. but with yall being young, especially her at that age, she may not really know what she wants at this point in life, trust me, I've been there. Its a weird time in your life that is confusing and awkward.
but like I said, be there for her as you always been and let her see it for herself. Give it time. and dont smother too much and be clingy.