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I have a stupid question but
11 years ago
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Being that I have only attempted to date once in my life and it didn't work, what's the right way to go about that? I know theory and application are two different things there, but my actual experience is pretty limited. Right now I'm at a point where I'm sure I'll still fall on my face and make a fool of myself if I date again since it'll only be my second attempt when I do decide I'm interested again, but shit, amy advice is welcome. I already have some idea of what doesn't work, but I guess being told some advice will help.
- Listen/watch/read the news and sports that day so you have something to talk about if all else fails.
- Try not to expect anything of either the experience or your date. Instead, observe what comes, so you can decide whether you want another date.
- Whatever happens, be nice. Your date won't be the only one judging you.
...and this has served me in more than just social occasions...
- Somebody who is nice to you, but rude to the waiter, is not a nice person.
Good luck!