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Where the f- do these people come from?? (Irl rant)
11 years ago
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I just have to rant a little. Feel free to pass it if you're not on the mood, or join me and rant some too.
I had a friend and an ex-friend of mine visiting about almost two weeks ago.
"Ex-friend" as in "I don't wanna keep contact with you anymore". He apparently didn't remember I'd told him that I don't
wanna see him or hear of him anymore, though now it feels more like he refused to remember.
Anyway. A couple of days after their visit I sent him a reminder email. What he replied seemed like he accepted it --
-- though in real life I think he did not.
He called my boyfriend's MOTHER today. His MOTHER. HIS. Not even mine.
Just after I had sent him the email.
And why? I have no fucking idea. But I do know what he told her, and more than half of it was absolute bullshit.
There were some things that were true too though, for example that one time I had to have an abort 'cause I accidentally
got pregnant and even though that's not a national secret there was a good reason why we hadn't told her about it.
Besides, it was about two years ago so who gives a fuck anymore?? x.x
The rest was meaningless shit about that my boyfriend would've kept me from seeing my friends, would've forced me
to stay home with him, would've threatened to kill me if I woke his mom up (wtf???), that I would've posted something
concerning to Facebook (he doesn't even use Facebook.......) and that my boyfriend would've also "fled/ran away from
him"... And other things!
This all just so much whattheabsoletehell to me. Where do these people come from???
After I'll get a hold of him (I've called him several times today, like maybe closer to 50 if not even over!) and explained
some things along some more things, if he'll ever contact me, my boyfriend or my boyfriend's family again, I'll get a
restraining order. My family wasn't mentioned 'cause they get along with him and he's visited just my family several
times too, so it's up to them if they wanna stay in touch with him after I'll update them about all of this.
Glsdnfksnflkamdlamsd. ARGH. Nothing stays too good forever, there always has to be something to shuffle the cards.
Fecking annoying.
So, anyone else had a similar experience to this? Or anything else to rant about? Rant away.
I had a friend and an ex-friend of mine visiting about almost two weeks ago.
"Ex-friend" as in "I don't wanna keep contact with you anymore". He apparently didn't remember I'd told him that I don't
wanna see him or hear of him anymore, though now it feels more like he refused to remember.
Anyway. A couple of days after their visit I sent him a reminder email. What he replied seemed like he accepted it --
-- though in real life I think he did not.
He called my boyfriend's MOTHER today. His MOTHER. HIS. Not even mine.
Just after I had sent him the email.
And why? I have no fucking idea. But I do know what he told her, and more than half of it was absolute bullshit.
There were some things that were true too though, for example that one time I had to have an abort 'cause I accidentally
got pregnant and even though that's not a national secret there was a good reason why we hadn't told her about it.
Besides, it was about two years ago so who gives a fuck anymore?? x.x
The rest was meaningless shit about that my boyfriend would've kept me from seeing my friends, would've forced me
to stay home with him, would've threatened to kill me if I woke his mom up (wtf???), that I would've posted something
concerning to Facebook (he doesn't even use Facebook.......) and that my boyfriend would've also "fled/ran away from
him"... And other things!
This all just so much whattheabsoletehell to me. Where do these people come from???
After I'll get a hold of him (I've called him several times today, like maybe closer to 50 if not even over!) and explained
some things along some more things, if he'll ever contact me, my boyfriend or my boyfriend's family again, I'll get a
restraining order. My family wasn't mentioned 'cause they get along with him and he's visited just my family several
times too, so it's up to them if they wanna stay in touch with him after I'll update them about all of this.
Glsdnfksnflkamdlamsd. ARGH. Nothing stays too good forever, there always has to be something to shuffle the cards.
Fecking annoying.
So, anyone else had a similar experience to this? Or anything else to rant about? Rant away.
Sorry for an added mini rant. --'
Hopefully things will be better for you soon. I've not had an experience like this, but one of my good friends did--it got to be so bad that she had to get a restraining order for him (and he'd still violate the restraining order). She even gave up to posting her art on gallery sites like this one, because he'd harass her online, as well.