I wasn't going to do this, but... PLEASE READ??
11 years ago
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I wasn't going to make this public, but things have gotten pretty...dire. I have started a gofundme so I can find a place to live.
[Editing: I'm going to change it to Indiegogo.. Instead, I will post the description and the situation here. ]
Link Here: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/.....s--2/x/9062141
I wasn't going to make this very public, but things have gotten very troublesome. Two weeks ago, the people I've been staying with had a misunderstanding with myself and my husband, and they gave me until December 31st to find a place to move. If I can't find a place by that date, then I'll be sleeping in my car. I would much rather avoid that posibility, but I don't think I will be able to come up with the amount needed to get into an apartment/trailer/house to rent in two months.
The $3,000 goal is enough for first and deposit, pet deposit, getting our lights and water turned on and two months rent until my husband can find a job locally, and we will be very honest and transparent about where each penny is going. Any extra will go toward an emergency fund and will only be used for bills and groceries if the need arises.
Any and all help would be greatly appreciated!
~Kii
__Background about the housing situation:
I've disclosed the information with only a handfull of people, but my husband and I had separated temporarilly, and I moved in with family until something gave. I helped my family with errands, got food stamps specifically to give to them so they could go without worrying about buying the extra groceries, and offered willingly to do and give what I could if they needed it. I have an aunt who lives next door that isn't in her right mind and dispises me for whatever reason, and she's not exactly made things easy for me; causing ridiculous fights with myself and my mother, pitting my uncle and his wife against one another because she thinks I'm doing something... things like that.
The situation that caused my sudden soon-to-possibly-be-homelessness started when my uncle's wife asked me for rent each month, which I said that I would need to see how my check would be but that I would do whatever I could to give them rent. I'm unsure how it happened, but I suppose she thought I was blowing her off and she went behind my back to my husband and was less than polite about telling him he needed to talk to me about paying them (which I had already agreed to, and I thought we had worked out an understanding that I would help). After my husband told her he thought that we had worked to an agreement, my uncle's wife took it as an argument and came to me that night, telling me that I had until the new year. I go in and out through the backdoor now, I eat whatever dry food I can manage to grab with my food stamps because I can't go into the kitchen to cook anymore, and the tension has literally been making me ill. I can't leave my job because I just got insurance, and I have some medical issues I absolutely have to have dealt with, so if I can't find a home, I will need to sleep in my car to stay local... _
If you can't donate, please share the link to those you think could possibly help us? I really don't want to sleep in my car.. :/
[Editing: I'm going to change it to Indiegogo.. Instead, I will post the description and the situation here. ]
Link Here: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/.....s--2/x/9062141
I wasn't going to make this very public, but things have gotten very troublesome. Two weeks ago, the people I've been staying with had a misunderstanding with myself and my husband, and they gave me until December 31st to find a place to move. If I can't find a place by that date, then I'll be sleeping in my car. I would much rather avoid that posibility, but I don't think I will be able to come up with the amount needed to get into an apartment/trailer/house to rent in two months.
The $3,000 goal is enough for first and deposit, pet deposit, getting our lights and water turned on and two months rent until my husband can find a job locally, and we will be very honest and transparent about where each penny is going. Any extra will go toward an emergency fund and will only be used for bills and groceries if the need arises.
Any and all help would be greatly appreciated!
~Kii
__Background about the housing situation:
I've disclosed the information with only a handfull of people, but my husband and I had separated temporarilly, and I moved in with family until something gave. I helped my family with errands, got food stamps specifically to give to them so they could go without worrying about buying the extra groceries, and offered willingly to do and give what I could if they needed it. I have an aunt who lives next door that isn't in her right mind and dispises me for whatever reason, and she's not exactly made things easy for me; causing ridiculous fights with myself and my mother, pitting my uncle and his wife against one another because she thinks I'm doing something... things like that.
The situation that caused my sudden soon-to-possibly-be-homelessness started when my uncle's wife asked me for rent each month, which I said that I would need to see how my check would be but that I would do whatever I could to give them rent. I'm unsure how it happened, but I suppose she thought I was blowing her off and she went behind my back to my husband and was less than polite about telling him he needed to talk to me about paying them (which I had already agreed to, and I thought we had worked out an understanding that I would help). After my husband told her he thought that we had worked to an agreement, my uncle's wife took it as an argument and came to me that night, telling me that I had until the new year. I go in and out through the backdoor now, I eat whatever dry food I can manage to grab with my food stamps because I can't go into the kitchen to cook anymore, and the tension has literally been making me ill. I can't leave my job because I just got insurance, and I have some medical issues I absolutely have to have dealt with, so if I can't find a home, I will need to sleep in my car to stay local... _
If you can't donate, please share the link to those you think could possibly help us? I really don't want to sleep in my car.. :/
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I hate it when good people get screwed over because someone is being spiteful or misunderstands something, and then refuses to listen to reason. Its happened to me in the past and has really screwed up a lot of stuff I had going on, but now that I'm in a more stable position in my life, I'm more then willing to lend a hand where and if I can.
Other than that, I hope everything goes over well. Like I said, I'll try to help as much as I can, and if you wanna talk and have someone just listen, dont be afraid to shoot me a note or something. ^^
Anyway, I sent some cash your way. Its not much but I hope it helps you guys ^^;
But I did post a journal for you on my Page
http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/6247376/