For those who don't get it~ (Warning date rape controversy)
11 years ago
I love my friends, they have their quirks, they have their times when they're a bit much to handle, but I'm always there for them. Me being the socially awkward person I am, love, love, love to avoid confrontation, but this is not only geared to one specific follower of mine, I will divulge some story time~
So I had a friend, who over the course of one day, used me to obtain drugs for free, at a cost that came out of my pocket, proceeded to invite herself to something to which she was not invited to, completely destroyed the vibe of friends hanging out by taking one drink and pretending to be drunk, and proceeded to cap the night off with date raping one of my friends.
There was controversy as to wether or not it was true date rape. I'm going to be harsh and honest here, He's a male, he had far too much pot and alcohol in his system, he didn't want to have sex with this girl before getting fucked in the head to next tuesday, and regret having sex with her the morning after.
People seem to only see it as date rape when I reverse the genders, a guy has a shot and pretends to be drunk, proceeds to take a trashed girl home, whose cross faded off of god knows what, and has "Consensual" sex with her....that's exactly what happened, it should be more of an outrage that the perpetrator of date rape is a date rape counselor.
AT ANY RATE, understand this, if I have to pick a side between two people, I will always stand by my friends. I'm angry and ranty right now, but the fact of the matter is I AM going to see this person brought to justice. She was someone I didn't particularly enjoy hanging out with before because she was self centered and made it all about her.
The fear I had was that she was a gossipy bitch, and she will probably shit talk me for eons to come, to people who don't know me, and will form opinions of me, burning possible friendships and relationships for me.
KNOW THIS, I've stopped giving a fuck about how I'm perceived by people who don't know me. "Those who matter, don't mind, and those who mind, don't matter" as it were. I will see this person brought to justice regardless of how it affects my social standing.
Rant over, feel free to comment opinions below.
So I had a friend, who over the course of one day, used me to obtain drugs for free, at a cost that came out of my pocket, proceeded to invite herself to something to which she was not invited to, completely destroyed the vibe of friends hanging out by taking one drink and pretending to be drunk, and proceeded to cap the night off with date raping one of my friends.
There was controversy as to wether or not it was true date rape. I'm going to be harsh and honest here, He's a male, he had far too much pot and alcohol in his system, he didn't want to have sex with this girl before getting fucked in the head to next tuesday, and regret having sex with her the morning after.
People seem to only see it as date rape when I reverse the genders, a guy has a shot and pretends to be drunk, proceeds to take a trashed girl home, whose cross faded off of god knows what, and has "Consensual" sex with her....that's exactly what happened, it should be more of an outrage that the perpetrator of date rape is a date rape counselor.
AT ANY RATE, understand this, if I have to pick a side between two people, I will always stand by my friends. I'm angry and ranty right now, but the fact of the matter is I AM going to see this person brought to justice. She was someone I didn't particularly enjoy hanging out with before because she was self centered and made it all about her.
The fear I had was that she was a gossipy bitch, and she will probably shit talk me for eons to come, to people who don't know me, and will form opinions of me, burning possible friendships and relationships for me.
KNOW THIS, I've stopped giving a fuck about how I'm perceived by people who don't know me. "Those who matter, don't mind, and those who mind, don't matter" as it were. I will see this person brought to justice regardless of how it affects my social standing.
Rant over, feel free to comment opinions below.
She's one of those "It's all about me" girls, the first time she came over to my house she invited herself over, I didn't say shit. She did the same thing to one of my female friends on THE ONLY NIGHT OF THE MONTH SHE'D GET TO SEE HER BOYFRIEND, because she couldn't take the hint of "I'd rather you didn't come over tonight"