Jail, Fire, Fines, and Life
11 years ago
I'll explain short and sweet.
1. Jail.
I was arrested a month ago or so, for driving on a suspended license, that I didn't even know was suspended in the first place. I was put in jail for 24 hours when that happened, and my meeting with the prosecutor was yesterday. The State of Michigan is taking me to court, because I had no knowledge of my license being suspended. Comes to find out, MY DAD had my paperwork all along and just threw it away as junk mail more than a year ago when I GOT IT ALL in the mail. He assumed because it was addressed to me, it was junk. I called the court, and we are trying to work out a deal. They want me to pay $1000 in fines, and then additional fines and fees associated with reinstating my license and resending the suspension on it. I don't have that. We are talking it out. For now though, THEY IMPOUNDED MY TRUCK. SO, because of my dad's sheer stupidity, I am out of a truck, my money, and my license. GREAT.
2. Fire
House caught fire. It just did. Fire, smoke, all that shit. Fire started in the kitchen, and spread to the dining room and living room. I'm still living in it, but everything is now either damaged by smoke, or reeks of it. The house is still livable, and we intend to make the necessary repairs eventually. It was an electrical fire caused by overheating and short-circuting what-nots, and it wasn't anyone's fault. Just old I suppose. We have to buy all new appliances for our kitchen, and all of the food we had went rotten. If I thought money was tight before, I was WRONG. On top of what I talked about with my license, I really didn't need this. This really complicates things with money and living here. At least we still have water, electric, and more.
3. Fines.
Jail and fire. Enough said. I owe a lot of money to the state treasury for my father's ignorance, money to IUSB and student loan companies, and the mechanic for a fix on my truck that is useless now because its IMPOUNDED until further notice. Money to fix the house is just not there, nor to buy new appliances. I really wish my dad and I made more money.
4. Life
Just fucking kill me now. I was planning on going back to college in January full time taking night classes.... but I guess not. I seriously can NEVER catch a break. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!
Its hard to be depressed and having suicidal thoughts and thoughts of self harm, when you are so fucking stressed about everything else.
1. Jail.
I was arrested a month ago or so, for driving on a suspended license, that I didn't even know was suspended in the first place. I was put in jail for 24 hours when that happened, and my meeting with the prosecutor was yesterday. The State of Michigan is taking me to court, because I had no knowledge of my license being suspended. Comes to find out, MY DAD had my paperwork all along and just threw it away as junk mail more than a year ago when I GOT IT ALL in the mail. He assumed because it was addressed to me, it was junk. I called the court, and we are trying to work out a deal. They want me to pay $1000 in fines, and then additional fines and fees associated with reinstating my license and resending the suspension on it. I don't have that. We are talking it out. For now though, THEY IMPOUNDED MY TRUCK. SO, because of my dad's sheer stupidity, I am out of a truck, my money, and my license. GREAT.
2. Fire
House caught fire. It just did. Fire, smoke, all that shit. Fire started in the kitchen, and spread to the dining room and living room. I'm still living in it, but everything is now either damaged by smoke, or reeks of it. The house is still livable, and we intend to make the necessary repairs eventually. It was an electrical fire caused by overheating and short-circuting what-nots, and it wasn't anyone's fault. Just old I suppose. We have to buy all new appliances for our kitchen, and all of the food we had went rotten. If I thought money was tight before, I was WRONG. On top of what I talked about with my license, I really didn't need this. This really complicates things with money and living here. At least we still have water, electric, and more.
3. Fines.
Jail and fire. Enough said. I owe a lot of money to the state treasury for my father's ignorance, money to IUSB and student loan companies, and the mechanic for a fix on my truck that is useless now because its IMPOUNDED until further notice. Money to fix the house is just not there, nor to buy new appliances. I really wish my dad and I made more money.
4. Life
Just fucking kill me now. I was planning on going back to college in January full time taking night classes.... but I guess not. I seriously can NEVER catch a break. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!
Its hard to be depressed and having suicidal thoughts and thoughts of self harm, when you are so fucking stressed about everything else.
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*hugs* and thanks
Your dad is a complete douche, and is causing at least half the stress you're going through, more than you need. You seriously need to get away from him and his bullshit influences, once and for all. There has to be somebody around there willing to take you in... maybe not the best arrangements but anything is better than living with your dickhead dad.
Seriously, your dad is just begging to have somebody's foot planted deep in his ass, and if I ever meet him I will be so inclined to do so in a heartbeat.
Hang in there... things have a way of turning around for you when you least expect it.
*tight hugs*
I basically threw my dreams out the window, and are choosing to just live simple and be left alone. I dont want financial people bothering me or huge bills coming my way anymore. My giol in life is to live debt free as possible and have MONEY TO SPARE.
If my dad acts up more, like he has in the past, I have no reason not to fight back anymore. Im tired of beer bottles being thrown at my head.
If things dont turn around in 2015 Im giving the fuck up.
*huggles tight*
*hugs tight*
I'm here if you need me, okay? And I'll help you if I can. I mean that.
Thank you honey.