How fucked up....[rant]
11 years ago
General
So my mate of 8 years went to dinner with his sister today. All good right?
He comes home and I can tell something is on his mind...finally he tells me whats going on.
A few weeks ago she brought up the fact that he desperately needs a new car. She offered to help him get one.
One catch though. If he breaks up with me she will buy him a car.
How fucked up is that???? I have less value than a fucking car. Our 8 year relationship is worth less than a fucking car.
I am so hurt and pissed off.
I am not perfect. I have panic attacks and trouble finding a good job because of them...But I am worth more than a fucking car.
Luckily my mate picked the car...but I feel something has changed...something broke tonight and I am just a mess...
He comes home and I can tell something is on his mind...finally he tells me whats going on.
A few weeks ago she brought up the fact that he desperately needs a new car. She offered to help him get one.
One catch though. If he breaks up with me she will buy him a car.
How fucked up is that???? I have less value than a fucking car. Our 8 year relationship is worth less than a fucking car.
I am so hurt and pissed off.
I am not perfect. I have panic attacks and trouble finding a good job because of them...But I am worth more than a fucking car.
Luckily my mate picked the car...but I feel something has changed...something broke tonight and I am just a mess...
FA+

My family has adopted my mate. We all love him but his entire family hates me because he didn't date who they picked for him.
I'm sorry that you had to go through that, and I hope things start to look up for you.
but thank you and I am feeling better today. Sharing with my furry friends felt like getting a weight off my chest.