Look, NOBODY is perfect. (Not defending her, just saying that we ALL need to put ourselves under that same high power microscope we tend to put others under).

Let's all worry about what we are first, and what others are second.

Good people focus on being good, and leave others to (hopefully) do the same thing.
If they don't... well, hey *Shrugs* perhaps maybe It's their loss... either way, not necessarily the sort of thing to always have to worry about (Who's doing what and why on all things all the time).

Just my opinion.

Nobody is perfect?

No, but if you take someone's money in exchange for a drawing, whining about your financial situation so that people are more willing to part with their money, then brag about spending hundreds of dollars on a new camera, stand and lights, and you never compete that drawing, you are nothing more then a PETTY THIEF. How EXACTLY do you forget someone paid you $175 to draw THEM?

Explain to me your reasoning.

My reasoning to you is this... are you an angel? *Shrugs* I for one admit I'm not.

I've never done what you said she did, and I'd bet you haven't done that sort of thing to her or to anyone else either.

But, again... odes it automatically mean we're angels you and I just because we never have (and never would) do that? Does it make us perfect? Does it make us somehow better?

I for one do NOT try to focus on who I feel I'm better than, or who is worse than me in some way. (Even when it IS really true) I mainly try to keep as much of my focus on being a good person myself.

For those that aren't good (like how you've said she is) I don't put the focus on bashing all of those kind of people... I put the focus on simply living and learning, and staying clear of people like that after getting burned one too many times.

That alone does the job well enough. (Living, learning, and when and where need be, avoiding troublemakers) Bashing does squat.

I'm no angel, but I don't take advantage of my watchers and fucking steal money off them, do I?

Living learning doesn't do the job well enough when no one is SAYING anything about it.

Actually... (and please believe me, I know this one from experience, unfortunately)... even when any of us DO speak against others... it's really falling on so many deaf ears out here anyways, since the fandom can be quite the kind of place where we're all seeming to become islands unto ourselves for so many of us).

And, yesh... unfortunately... that probably includes myself as well.


So, actually... if only for lack of any other viable choice out here... I try to simply not bother wasting my time. (Because that IS all it ever seems to acheive in the end... wasting your own time).

Definitely, I've wasted more than enough of mine out here trying to get people to listen. It just ain't worth it. So, in other words... if nobody is saying anything it could well be because nobody cares about very much of anything at all out here as far as right and wrong goes.

That part isn't your fault, or mine... it just seems to be the way things are. *Shrugs*