Photoshop incident: closed without clicking "yes" to save
11 years ago
General
I'm sorry guys, I can't write the whole story, but I only copied the Skype chat log (with my recipient covered-up as "anonymous" for sentimental reasons) since I lost my feeling that terrible night.
[7:30:11 PM] I've finished the whole background of one commission, but I forgot to save my work, so the whole background went back to line. I wasted 5 hours of work.
[7:33:29 PM] anonymous: ouch :(
[7:33:43 PM] anonymous: Background for what mate?
[7:33:44 PM] Targon Ghanzir: now for the sick truth
[7:34:06 PM] Targon Ghanzir: my young brother joshua did not click "yes" when closing and saving while I was out to grocery
[7:34:11 PM] Targon Ghanzir: I left him use my laptop atm
[7:34:22 PM] Targon Ghanzir: well, it's still my fault anyways
[7:34:22 PM] anonymous: oh no :(
[7:34:34 PM] anonymous: I bet your brother is upset about it
[7:34:43 PM] Targon Ghanzir: nope, he's not ashamed
[7:34:56 PM] anonymous: ashamed is not far from the same feeling
[7:35:12 PM] Targon Ghanzir: he doesn't care about my work
[7:35:37 PM] anonymous: Hmmm, then ashamed is not the correct word i guess as that means they are guilty and afraid to approach you
[7:36:27 PM] anonymous: Which commission was that for?
[7:36:42 PM] anonymous: Was it a hard background to do?
[7:36:59 PM] Targon Ghanzir: yeah. realistic background
[7:37:10 PM] Targon Ghanzir: he did not even said sorry
[7:37:24 PM] anonymous: damn :(
[7:37:29 PM] anonymous: Thats not ashamed then
[7:38:29 PM] Targon Ghanzir: you don't know about 16 year old brat yet
[7:39:30 PM] Targon Ghanzir: but it's too late now. I have to be sorry about myself
[7:40:01 PM] anonymous: Ashamed is where if i was to not save your work. I would cower in my room, you would come home and realise what happened. And when you come and find me or ask what happened i would be too scared to look you in the eye or i would be hiding, shaking slightly. Thats ashamed
[7:40:51 PM] anonymous: To me it seems your brother has i dont give a fuck attitude and is not bothered, thats something completly different
[7:45:44 PM] Targon Ghanzir: while working on the background over again, I lost my confidence and cried over my laptop
[7:46:03 PM | Edited 7:46:12 PM] Targon Ghanzir: my brother heard my sniffing and I heard that he shut the room door
[7:46:22 PM] Targon Ghanzir: fuck my life...
[7:47:12 PM] anonymous: Sorry to hear mate, if i was there i would give you a hug
[7:50:36 PM | Edited 7:51:12 PM] Targon Ghanzir: No need to. He's hungry tonight, so i need to feed him dinner
[7:51:43 PM] Targon Ghanzir: He doesnt deserve to be punished or something
[7:52:24 PM] Targon Ghanzir: Since im afraid to fight
[7:53:30 PM] anonymous: You have a heart of gold mate, but you do need to have it out with him if you told him to save it first.
[7:53:54 PM] anonymous: Or best thing to do, something i would do, let him cook his own dinner
[7:57:48 PM] Targon Ghanzir: He is lazy to cook
[7:59:18 PM] anonymous: Then he will remember this day well, and it wont happen again, maybe it is the only way to get through to him
[8:00:47 PM] Targon Ghanzir: Karma
[8:02:03 PM] Targon Ghanzir: Are you willing to pay me early? I feel depress by drawing commission life
[8:02:12 PM] Targon Ghanzir: And with accidents
[8:02:25 PM] anonymous: ive paid already
[8:02:38 PM] Targon Ghanzir: I forgot
[8:03:46 PM] Targon Ghanzir: Sorry
[8:55 PM] Targon Ghanzir: I feel I lost my confidence when I work on the picture
he always tell me "it's always your fault"
FUCK YOU BROTHER! I would've tell him that
"AND FUCK YOUR SELF-CENTERED, FAULT-ESCAPING, SHAMELESS AND RUTHLESS SHIT!"
[9:00:05 PM] anonymous: You probably have lost your confidence a bit as it was a lot of work put into it. The best thing is to work on something else or do something else until you are ready to do it again
[9:02:56 PM] Targon Ghanzir: indeed
(ADDITION: he told me that I annoy him as he got angry at me that I reprimanded him for not caring to save-and-exit the Photoshop and using "think before you act" golden instruction, ALL because of stupid PC performance and memory speed. So I better not make him engage to violent blows at me again and again. I was sadly defeated. When I was crying, he hated my crying and wants me to "shut the hell up and draw all it again...it's your work, not mine!" and worse: "YOU ACT LIKE A KID, so STOP IT AND GET OVER IT!"...My babysitting days in our house is depressing...)
(FINAL ADDITION: Do you have any words to describe that is worse than "hypocrite"??? *cries*)
[7:30:11 PM] I've finished the whole background of one commission, but I forgot to save my work, so the whole background went back to line. I wasted 5 hours of work.
[7:33:29 PM] anonymous: ouch :(
[7:33:43 PM] anonymous: Background for what mate?
[7:33:44 PM] Targon Ghanzir: now for the sick truth
[7:34:06 PM] Targon Ghanzir: my young brother joshua did not click "yes" when closing and saving while I was out to grocery
[7:34:11 PM] Targon Ghanzir: I left him use my laptop atm
[7:34:22 PM] Targon Ghanzir: well, it's still my fault anyways
[7:34:22 PM] anonymous: oh no :(
[7:34:34 PM] anonymous: I bet your brother is upset about it
[7:34:43 PM] Targon Ghanzir: nope, he's not ashamed
[7:34:56 PM] anonymous: ashamed is not far from the same feeling
[7:35:12 PM] Targon Ghanzir: he doesn't care about my work
[7:35:37 PM] anonymous: Hmmm, then ashamed is not the correct word i guess as that means they are guilty and afraid to approach you
[7:36:27 PM] anonymous: Which commission was that for?
[7:36:42 PM] anonymous: Was it a hard background to do?
[7:36:59 PM] Targon Ghanzir: yeah. realistic background
[7:37:10 PM] Targon Ghanzir: he did not even said sorry
[7:37:24 PM] anonymous: damn :(
[7:37:29 PM] anonymous: Thats not ashamed then
[7:38:29 PM] Targon Ghanzir: you don't know about 16 year old brat yet
[7:39:30 PM] Targon Ghanzir: but it's too late now. I have to be sorry about myself
[7:40:01 PM] anonymous: Ashamed is where if i was to not save your work. I would cower in my room, you would come home and realise what happened. And when you come and find me or ask what happened i would be too scared to look you in the eye or i would be hiding, shaking slightly. Thats ashamed
[7:40:51 PM] anonymous: To me it seems your brother has i dont give a fuck attitude and is not bothered, thats something completly different
[7:45:44 PM] Targon Ghanzir: while working on the background over again, I lost my confidence and cried over my laptop
[7:46:03 PM | Edited 7:46:12 PM] Targon Ghanzir: my brother heard my sniffing and I heard that he shut the room door
[7:46:22 PM] Targon Ghanzir: fuck my life...
[7:47:12 PM] anonymous: Sorry to hear mate, if i was there i would give you a hug
[7:50:36 PM | Edited 7:51:12 PM] Targon Ghanzir: No need to. He's hungry tonight, so i need to feed him dinner
[7:51:43 PM] Targon Ghanzir: He doesnt deserve to be punished or something
[7:52:24 PM] Targon Ghanzir: Since im afraid to fight
[7:53:30 PM] anonymous: You have a heart of gold mate, but you do need to have it out with him if you told him to save it first.
[7:53:54 PM] anonymous: Or best thing to do, something i would do, let him cook his own dinner
[7:57:48 PM] Targon Ghanzir: He is lazy to cook
[7:59:18 PM] anonymous: Then he will remember this day well, and it wont happen again, maybe it is the only way to get through to him
[8:00:47 PM] Targon Ghanzir: Karma
[8:02:03 PM] Targon Ghanzir: Are you willing to pay me early? I feel depress by drawing commission life
[8:02:12 PM] Targon Ghanzir: And with accidents
[8:02:25 PM] anonymous: ive paid already
[8:02:38 PM] Targon Ghanzir: I forgot
[8:03:46 PM] Targon Ghanzir: Sorry
[8:55 PM] Targon Ghanzir: I feel I lost my confidence when I work on the picture
he always tell me "it's always your fault"
FUCK YOU BROTHER! I would've tell him that
"AND FUCK YOUR SELF-CENTERED, FAULT-ESCAPING, SHAMELESS AND RUTHLESS SHIT!"
[9:00:05 PM] anonymous: You probably have lost your confidence a bit as it was a lot of work put into it. The best thing is to work on something else or do something else until you are ready to do it again
[9:02:56 PM] Targon Ghanzir: indeed
(ADDITION: he told me that I annoy him as he got angry at me that I reprimanded him for not caring to save-and-exit the Photoshop and using "think before you act" golden instruction, ALL because of stupid PC performance and memory speed. So I better not make him engage to violent blows at me again and again. I was sadly defeated. When I was crying, he hated my crying and wants me to "shut the hell up and draw all it again...it's your work, not mine!" and worse: "YOU ACT LIKE A KID, so STOP IT AND GET OVER IT!"...My babysitting days in our house is depressing...)
(FINAL ADDITION: Do you have any words to describe that is worse than "hypocrite"??? *cries*)
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I hope that you can solve your situation with him in an easy way, good luck to you red dragon .
I understand the feeling quite a lot.
Though at my opinion, if he is mad like that and rules over you, in my place I would honestly refund him and stop that picking right there. You don't deserve to be picked on for something you didn't had any control at the point it happened.
*hugs tight* I hope you will get better soon bud!
C:\Users\[Your username]\AppData\Roaming\Adobe\Adobe Photoshop CS6\AutoRecover
I'm sorry for your lost work. Have a squeaky hug. *hugs tight* ^'===='^
It's YOUR laptop.
I have a brother that uses mines, and I have to tell him to stop playing trashy music and stop looking at porn. I believe you can do the same.