Current Realizations + Mate Application Form
10 years ago
So about that...
Ok so like, ya here's the thing. Ventured throughout the states, meeting a lot of new and old awesomes while taking a lot of time away to think of some cliche things on my down time. One of which is I keep looking for that significant other and it's always at an inopportune time, or just not possible. So I thought I'd take a different approach and let you guys fill out an application. Yes, and application form that'll help me sift through the people I do and do not want, along with some awesome entertainment and not to mention the possibility to make a few new friends out of the ordeal.
So yeah! Let's get started.
Are you Male or Female?
Are physical features a huge part in distinguising between an attractive or not? (Y/N)
What's your height?
What's your weight?
Would you consider your ability to converse/socialize with other individuals excellent or lacking?
In a few short sentences, describe how you would like to go on our first date:
What is the level of your education?
What do you do for work?
What kind of vehicle do you drive?
What is your dream vehicle?
Besides work related traits, what are some extra curricular activities you excel in?
Outside of work, do you consider yourself laid back and relaxed, or prefer a night on the town?
Alcohol Abuse, if any?
Smoker?
Drug use, if any?
In your opinion, do you think any form of drugs could have an impact on the relationship stability? And if so, why?
Explain in a few sentences who you are behind closed doors. Who you would like to be, who you could see me as. Your "blue moon" activities or your more preferred routines?
These should be enough for now! If you prefer not to answer these in the journal by all means send them via note and I'll get back to you asap.
If I find my soul mate doing this I swear to god.... this is going to be one hell of a dinner conversation with the parents.
So yeah! Let's get started.
Are you Male or Female?
Are physical features a huge part in distinguising between an attractive or not? (Y/N)
What's your height?
What's your weight?
Would you consider your ability to converse/socialize with other individuals excellent or lacking?
In a few short sentences, describe how you would like to go on our first date:
What is the level of your education?
What do you do for work?
What kind of vehicle do you drive?
What is your dream vehicle?
Besides work related traits, what are some extra curricular activities you excel in?
Outside of work, do you consider yourself laid back and relaxed, or prefer a night on the town?
Alcohol Abuse, if any?
Smoker?
Drug use, if any?
In your opinion, do you think any form of drugs could have an impact on the relationship stability? And if so, why?
Explain in a few sentences who you are behind closed doors. Who you would like to be, who you could see me as. Your "blue moon" activities or your more preferred routines?
These should be enough for now! If you prefer not to answer these in the journal by all means send them via note and I'll get back to you asap.
If I find my soul mate doing this I swear to god.... this is going to be one hell of a dinner conversation with the parents.
That's a good laugh. Thank ya
Okay, now I've officially seen everything.
I mean really think about it. Most people date and have nothing in common other than being physically attracted to each other.
And here you are trying to find someone on a website you enjoy by seeing if someones lifestyle and interest match up with your own.
What a shame that some people can be so negative.
Simply put, I'm bored.
In a million different ways.
I mean even if it is a joke, who cares? XD People just waste their time being stupid.
Also, you should play a game if you are bored. They are time killers. XD
Well im a raging homo, i like the. Color pink, taking long walks in the park and yelling "fuck yo picnic". At people
I would say on that one specific note that I sense to be a real matter of interest, somehow likely based in a past experience of yours that urges you to note it. I've lost one based partially due to drug related matters myself. It's unfortunate, and was honestly hugely my fault. I was confronted with a disbelief against me, doubt, and mishandled it, then followed a series of denying to myself what I was doing til it was too late, and after a parting of ways, truly lost myself and regained control and realized over many days of soul searching, the sad reality of what really happened. It shouldn't have been a matter. I try not to regret it, because we all learn from watching or experiencing a scrap, and this was a hard lesson.
So to that: drugs have no place in a relationship, for any reason, but for perhaps the carefully handled exception of super rare recreational use, once in a blue moon. Otherwise, it just causes problems, and obscures perceptions and reality and fucks with such a wonderfully pure thing.
I empathize greatly. I think anyway. :p
After all, love is generic.
I wouldn't make it a deal-breaker because of a loss, but rather I just learned in time, anything more than once in a blue moon is a variation of dependence. Everyone's got their vices, but I'd rather not bother with someone that relies on something to make their day better, more regularly that profoundly has an impact on brain chemistry. Kinda like how I never enjoyed the company of anti-depressant and anxiety medicated drones. Feels weak. If you can't enjoy life the way you feel you should without doing blow or whatever more often, probably means you have something else to improve in your life.
Buuuut...Different strokes for different folks. :) Be safe and... lol try not to stroke out on the stuff.