The Art of Dominance
10 years ago
"Be silent when I am speaking. For I shall not repeat myself..."
The art of dominance can be hard to master. In many ways, there are requirements that you must acquire to practice such an art: being an acceptable mistress takes patience, practice, experience, and in some cases, the usual natural ability for such. The art of dominance, in a sense, is its own form of love. It takes great skill. You must understand how the psyche works, and also how the body works. You must understand what most pets truly want, what turns them on, what creates the infamous desire that always keep them around and craving for more. Pets respond to a certain degree of power, even violent power if they so desire, and cool, calm, absolute control in a mistress. If they know she will lead them to a place they have never been, and bring them much pleasure, most pets will gladly submit to the power of the mistress.
But it is not solely the love or lust, as many call it that creates the art of dominance. No. It is the mentor and her student(s). The leadership. The hardships. The bond(s). Her pet(s).
Like all art, the art of dominance is something that is learned through practice. In the course of learning this, you will all make mistakes. Things will not always work out. But with experience you will learn more and more, and gain the skills most needed to be a good mistress or pet. Some have a natural talent for this, so the learning needed is less; others must make an effort to learn more, but they can be successful. It is not impossible. However, all who want to master the art of dominance must have some natural affinity for the role of mistress and pet. This is something you must not force yourself into. You must enjoy being the strong, powerful member of the relationship. You must not fear. You must trust your instincts and desires. You must be strict, while tempering that with love and affection at the right times. You must not be hesitant to inflict the proper discipline on a pet when you deem it necessary. A pet will respond to this, if they are open to such a "relationship".
(And most pets are.)