That award is just amazing

Very good read. thanks :)

oh I know exactly who to give this to. Thank you

I feel like some in the world has made that hat if not then why hasn't there

Interesting read! I think what people forget a lot of the time is that they should try to level with someone before judging them, if they're so hellbent on judging them. That way you'll get a lot better sense of what and why people are the way they are. I believe people should ''mirror'' things more too, before they say something.

Also, relevant: http://media.giphy.com/media/xXpJ7q.....coFy/giphy.gif

I thought it was cause of...ya know stuff like this- http://tinyurl.com/o3edz9y

Simply beautiful.

love the award xD

Can't tell if joking...

I'm not sure what issues you may have, but the DSM IV-TR is the book of guidelines psych providers use to diagnose mental health issues.

No, there's three axes for the diagnoses inside. You'd see things like depression and anxiety in there. Is this a licensed provider leading you to believe this diagnosis or did you get some advice from friends? If it's the first, you may want to try someone else. If it's the second, you should talk to someone qualified.

Interesting.

It's a booming fashion trend since the onset of the internet.

It's Freudian though. No real empirical justification and you may be applying confirmation bias here. This article has empirical validation and is somewhat related to the topic: http://pss.sagepub.com/content/1/5/319.short

It's possible people just do idealization and devaluation as a way to simplify thought process. Basically, don't spend so much time splitting hairs about the virtues and vices of a person and just declare all good or all bad to save time and energy. In the article is shows people relying more on stereotypes when they are physically tired. Evolutionarily, it's an energy and time saving mechanism from when food and free time were not as abundant as they are now

It could also be the people you dealt with were often physically tired as well. I know my boyfriend is a sack of poop when he comes back from work and doesn't want to do any heavy thinking

I don't think any guy wants to do heavy thinking at -any- point of the day, really. Haha.

Thems fighting words.

Who's being mean to you? Do you want me to beat them up? D:

Nonono. Not mentioning any names in public.

Just get back in your tree, little squirrel~!

Amazing. You gonna be ok or are you ok?

Yus, I'm fine~

Ok you are good, ok we can hand the think with enough cat nip, btw nice icon X3

Interesting read, but some people are just plain unable to tell the truth, or are unable to see a situation for what it is (eg: an ex who decides it's not over because he didn't say it was over and who'll stalk the new bf and pregnant ex for months...) I know this because I've been in that situation, and he wasn't splitting (or very good at hiding it) but just a plain spoiled brat at 24 who didn't want to grow up. Everything had to go his way or he'd run off crying and generating more aggro from his friends, just because he didn't understand that acting like a dick and trying to take over my gf's life and mind isn't a good thing. some people are just plain asshats, without any reasons. sorry if that sounded rant-ish, I really liked to read the post lol

Interesting. I thought it was a good article and I can see others and myself in the post. Gave me some things to think on.

If only everybody took a moment to think rationally before they act.

The world would be a better place.~

We've discussed this many times :P

Resource management. As individuals, it is very difficult to properly interpret the body language of others, particularly with regards to their body's resources. For others, it isn't so much resources but personal experience, some people having been around the wrong people or environments for overly long periods of time. How often we forget our humanity, expecting everyone to act and feel as we desire.

Provided one were to expand those limitations though, be it in their overall understanding of people or their body's ability to withstand such stresses, perhaps an expansion of resources or increasingly efficient means of utilizing such resources, it should be possible to produce a person of more favorable behaviors. The more empowered and enlightened you feel, the less likely you are to engage in aggression and hostility... assuming you have no goals for world domination.

Stay healthy, choose your battles, and expand your mind. Or become a cyborg.