I will henceforth not give a cent to people unless i've met you in real life, which for this site would only three people. If I chose to get a commission that is fine. I understand that, i have to pay. But I also hold the right to not give money even if I know you in person. Just cause you need it doesn't mean you cant handle the consequences of not having it. The world isn't always a kind and just place. One of my Japanese students advice when going to Washington DC was to move fast to prevent the bad guys from getting to you. He of course at the drinking party happily acknowledges there are good and bad Americans which he put me as a good one. But his negative experience in Detroit made him feel there aren't great people in this world. I know this and I don't blame anyone who has ever asked for money. Its a necessity sadly in our world to have it to live. A sad truth, but I don't want people to feel bad about needing it. I love you all and care for you all so much.