-offers hugs?- Are you upset over your own relationship or another? If you don't mind my asking, you don't have to answer if you don't want to

upset bout mine

I'm sorry... Maybe they just aren't the one for you. If they aren't willing to stick through for you, they're not worth your time. You're a wonderful person with your own gifts and talents and great personality and NO ONE can take that from you. You're perfect in your own way and if someone can't accept that of you... they don't deserve you.

*sigh* I don't know what to do..maybe I should just let him be alone for tonight..but then again..i was gone for a week I thought maybe he would at least listen and kinda sound like was happy yo see me..but all I get is "Wb babe" ...

What!? That's no way to greet your gal D< Have you tried telling him how you feel/felt? Maybe explain, hey, you need some love and attention? I know sometimes I need to be reminded to show I care... I mean, I'm not trying to give him too much benefit of the doubt, but seriously, you should get some more attention than that.

I don't wanna seem controlling..i feel like if I say that I feel like im forcing him to say more then he wants...I mean if I got a message from him after a week went by I would flipping tackle hug him and kiss him a lot...

I thought of him the whole time I was without internet...I was worried he was worried bout me...but I guess not so much..

I don't think it'd be controlling if you asked nicely for some attention :c Not trying to be mean or anything, but if you're being ignored then I think you're within allowed boundaries to ask for some love

He is kinda comin off as a jerk to me, no offense to either of you. I just don't think it's very nice to ignore the fact your gal was gone all week and all she gets is a short, curt message. I'unno, I don't know other people very well, I just know that sometimes I need to be reminded because I don't realize when I come off as a jackass or uncaring. It's a give and take situation, relationships. You both have to work together and if there's a problem, it needs to be talked about or else it'll never get fixed. Does that make any sense?

Let me put it this way. When I moved in with my gal, the first three months I hardly spoke, I was a REAL jerk. I didn't talk to her about either of our problems, I didn't welcome her back home, and I never even realized I was doing this either. Not until she spoke up and told me we needed to communicate. Now we're three years strong, gonna be four in October. Like my gramma says, the squeaky wheel gets the oil.

your right..it makes sense. i'll get working on it..

I'm not saying you have to, it's just a suggestion. And I support you wholly if you decide to do it or not to do it, okay? I hope I'm not coming off bad, I'm just trying to help... I really do hope things get better for you and I'm terribly sorry your day isn't going so well

you helped. I'll pull through.

I'm glad I helped. If you ever need to vent, I'll listen. I know it may not seem like much but if I can help, I want to

I agree.

Also, ~hugs~ cheer up man! You're awesome!
Sometimes relationships aren't worth the effort and heartbreak. Look at it this way, you're single, which means you dont gotta worry about the ball and chain keeping you from having fun however you want.

I mean, I'm not exactly sure what's going on, but that's my stance on being single. >.>

*hug back*