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In regards to my pet's interactions (clarifications)
10 years ago
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WARNING: The following journal entry may contain strong content of an anthropomorphic and/or homoerotic nature.
Now that I have your attention... Hey guys! I felt like I needed to get this all down, so I had a quick and easy way for people to reference this information if they/I needed it.
To start off, my pet is just that, a pet. I think of and care for him in much the same way that I do my real life cat. Sex is part of what we have, sure, but it's not a primary focus. I'm sure the tweets on my AD account may give a different impression, but much of our interactions occur outside of Twitter and focus on me helping him through his life issues.
This is what I want from a pet, someone I can rely on to be there when I need them, and in turn, I will do the same for them. I don't want a fucktoy who only exists to help me get off, I want someone who can grow and learn with me while I guide and advise them.
My pet is mated in an open relationship, and I myself am in a semi-open relationship. All parties involved are aware of what we have and have given us our blessing to do it.
I will admit that, while I like to think I'm a good Master and dominant, I don't know much about "traditional" D/s roles, symbols or traditions. My first boyfriend sorta forced me into the position of being a Master. I was terrible at it, but I fumbled around and mostly taught myself until I got it.
I recently learned that, in some/most D/s relationships, Doms disallow others from expressing affection or flirting with their subs because it's seen as a breach of the trust the Dom and sub have. That may work for them, but it doesn't for me, and my pet and I established our Agreement on the foundation that it wouldn't be that way.
I WANT my pet to be flirted with. I WANT him to have sex with other people who aren't me. Hell, that just motivates me to consistently be better for him. Besides, I do feel that jealousy can serve as a good motivator in healthy amounts. You don't need my permission to do these things to my pet.
I consider my pet to be a pet, not a slave. I don't control his life, how he lives it or how he interacts with others, and that's not changing any time soon.
To start off, my pet is just that, a pet. I think of and care for him in much the same way that I do my real life cat. Sex is part of what we have, sure, but it's not a primary focus. I'm sure the tweets on my AD account may give a different impression, but much of our interactions occur outside of Twitter and focus on me helping him through his life issues.
This is what I want from a pet, someone I can rely on to be there when I need them, and in turn, I will do the same for them. I don't want a fucktoy who only exists to help me get off, I want someone who can grow and learn with me while I guide and advise them.
My pet is mated in an open relationship, and I myself am in a semi-open relationship. All parties involved are aware of what we have and have given us our blessing to do it.
I will admit that, while I like to think I'm a good Master and dominant, I don't know much about "traditional" D/s roles, symbols or traditions. My first boyfriend sorta forced me into the position of being a Master. I was terrible at it, but I fumbled around and mostly taught myself until I got it.
I recently learned that, in some/most D/s relationships, Doms disallow others from expressing affection or flirting with their subs because it's seen as a breach of the trust the Dom and sub have. That may work for them, but it doesn't for me, and my pet and I established our Agreement on the foundation that it wouldn't be that way.
I WANT my pet to be flirted with. I WANT him to have sex with other people who aren't me. Hell, that just motivates me to consistently be better for him. Besides, I do feel that jealousy can serve as a good motivator in healthy amounts. You don't need my permission to do these things to my pet.
I consider my pet to be a pet, not a slave. I don't control his life, how he lives it or how he interacts with others, and that's not changing any time soon.
