Why do you like your fetish?
16 years ago
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This is a valid question, people. something I've been thinking about for a while. With all the crazy fetishes around on Fa (baby furs, vore, fatfurs, watersports, ect ect. Whatever floats your boat and fills your fancy) I'm just curious...what is it that makes you like your fetish so much, while it may make other people completely and utterly disgusted?
I'm not here to make fun of anyone, and truthfully, while I find some of the fetishes out there completely and utterly absurd, I don't condone those who like just as much as I wouldn't want to be made fun of for my fetishes.
If you don't want to opening admit what your fetish is publicly that's fine. Feel free to note me your answer, or just kinda give me some sort of generic, simplified answer that won't actually tell others what your fetish is. But as I said, I am NOT here to judge, I'm just curious what makes your mind tick and why you like the things you like.
And I guess since I'm asking this, I should answer it as well. First I'll let you know that I'm mostly pretty conventional, I don't have many "extreme" fetishes, and a lot of fetishes kinda irk me (watersports, scat, fatfurs, sexual babyfurs [although actually non-sexual babyfurs are adorable], vore, and hyper/macro to name a few.) but here's a little list of the things I consider my fetishes and what it is about them that makes me so happy.
1. lesbians/girl-on-girl - While I am bisexual and love both male and female, there is something about two women together that is purely amazing to me. Nothing gets me more aroused then two women kissing, fondling, and just enjoying exploring each other. I find women to be the fairer sex in many ways, specially because of their curves and most definitely because of their breasts and soft, smooth skin.
2. Tentacles - What can I say, I'm an old-school hentai loving type of fool xD I find it somehow erotic watching girls (and sometimes guys) getting attacked by some sort of creature with multiple appendages. If that makes me weird, I dont' care. You guys like some pretty fucked up shit as well, I consider this pretty tame in the realm of fetishes xD
3. Crossdressing - It's pretty simple. I love seeing people dressed as the opposite gender, it's fun and exciting, specially when it involves drag shows <3 I wouldn't mind trying it myself in person if it weren't for my large amount of curves, shapely ass, and large boobs xD
4. Long hair on guys - haha...I really don't know if this counts as a fetish or not, but all I can say is long, well-kept, clean hair on men is so highly attractive to me that it's not even funny. Long hair on girls is sexy as well, but doesn't quite have the same effect on me for some reason.
5. Forceplay - I guess in some terms this could be called "rape" but I don't want people going around thinking that I personally want to be raped, or condone rape in any way. I know quite well the terrible things that come of being raped, and I would not wish it on anyone in real life. My characters on the other hand? Maybe you'll hate me, but I love seeing my girls (and sometimes my boys) raped on occasion..I'm a cruel, cruel person I guess. I think this is the only fetish that I'm kinda wary on admitting, but you know what, I don't really think it makes me a bad person to find this erotic. Hell, I've RPed rape-situations with exes int eh past, and it can be hilariously fun...the real thing? no, not at all. I know that first hand. Also, it's only MY characters I feel this way about. I don't go around saying or thinking I want to rape or see other people's characters raped, and most definitely don't think anything of the sort of real people. I hope this all made sense?
That's really about it. Like I said, I'm mostly conventional, I don't really get into the really big fetishes, although I'm not saying I'd hate anyone else who is. I'm just curious why you guys like what you like. and again, you don't have to tell me what you like if you don't want it to be known publicly. I know not everyone is as open about who they are as I am (I probably should shut my mouth sometimes, but I don't think I ever will. I'm just not a shy person really...well, in some ways I am, and in some ways I'm not.
I'm not here to make fun of anyone, and truthfully, while I find some of the fetishes out there completely and utterly absurd, I don't condone those who like just as much as I wouldn't want to be made fun of for my fetishes.
If you don't want to opening admit what your fetish is publicly that's fine. Feel free to note me your answer, or just kinda give me some sort of generic, simplified answer that won't actually tell others what your fetish is. But as I said, I am NOT here to judge, I'm just curious what makes your mind tick and why you like the things you like.
And I guess since I'm asking this, I should answer it as well. First I'll let you know that I'm mostly pretty conventional, I don't have many "extreme" fetishes, and a lot of fetishes kinda irk me (watersports, scat, fatfurs, sexual babyfurs [although actually non-sexual babyfurs are adorable], vore, and hyper/macro to name a few.) but here's a little list of the things I consider my fetishes and what it is about them that makes me so happy.
1. lesbians/girl-on-girl - While I am bisexual and love both male and female, there is something about two women together that is purely amazing to me. Nothing gets me more aroused then two women kissing, fondling, and just enjoying exploring each other. I find women to be the fairer sex in many ways, specially because of their curves and most definitely because of their breasts and soft, smooth skin.
2. Tentacles - What can I say, I'm an old-school hentai loving type of fool xD I find it somehow erotic watching girls (and sometimes guys) getting attacked by some sort of creature with multiple appendages. If that makes me weird, I dont' care. You guys like some pretty fucked up shit as well, I consider this pretty tame in the realm of fetishes xD
3. Crossdressing - It's pretty simple. I love seeing people dressed as the opposite gender, it's fun and exciting, specially when it involves drag shows <3 I wouldn't mind trying it myself in person if it weren't for my large amount of curves, shapely ass, and large boobs xD
4. Long hair on guys - haha...I really don't know if this counts as a fetish or not, but all I can say is long, well-kept, clean hair on men is so highly attractive to me that it's not even funny. Long hair on girls is sexy as well, but doesn't quite have the same effect on me for some reason.
5. Forceplay - I guess in some terms this could be called "rape" but I don't want people going around thinking that I personally want to be raped, or condone rape in any way. I know quite well the terrible things that come of being raped, and I would not wish it on anyone in real life. My characters on the other hand? Maybe you'll hate me, but I love seeing my girls (and sometimes my boys) raped on occasion..I'm a cruel, cruel person I guess. I think this is the only fetish that I'm kinda wary on admitting, but you know what, I don't really think it makes me a bad person to find this erotic. Hell, I've RPed rape-situations with exes int eh past, and it can be hilariously fun...the real thing? no, not at all. I know that first hand. Also, it's only MY characters I feel this way about. I don't go around saying or thinking I want to rape or see other people's characters raped, and most definitely don't think anything of the sort of real people. I hope this all made sense?
That's really about it. Like I said, I'm mostly conventional, I don't really get into the really big fetishes, although I'm not saying I'd hate anyone else who is. I'm just curious why you guys like what you like. and again, you don't have to tell me what you like if you don't want it to be known publicly. I know not everyone is as open about who they are as I am (I probably should shut my mouth sometimes, but I don't think I ever will. I'm just not a shy person really...well, in some ways I am, and in some ways I'm not.
I don't really think my fetishes are that interesting, they are pretty mundane compared to a lot of people in this fandom xD
Bondage: Being tied down and left at the whims of the other is exciting to me, and it's probably something that runs along with tentacles.
Socks/ stockings: Negis got me hooked on it. I enjoy the little bit of clothing left on and the designs are really cute on some socks. XD
Gangbang/ DP: One female having to pleasure multiple males (or females, or both) is just that exciting factor again. It's pretty arousing to watch. ^^;;
So those are mine added to your list. XD
1:Hermaphrodites/shemales/transgenders. Love 'em. BUT. Above all else, I hate elephant herms, dragon herms, and horse herms. Only Winger draws minks and I really distaste Winger. If it's a herm, I like it to be some kind of cat or fox, usually with a small boner, maybe slightly above average. No giant hulking mammoth tits. Just nice, smooth curves. An example: Rusc Fox.
2:Female vampires. I really like female vampires. There's just something about a female biting one of my male or female characters, that's very hot. I'm not sure why I enjoy it. I like vampires to be as little based on the stereotypes as possible. Myths are often stories based on stretched facts, so it bugs me often when they're portrayed as being just like in the movies. (Werewolves are the same way. Make it as little like they're portrayed in fiction as possible, and I'm okay with it, but not a fetish of mine)
3:Tribals. I looove tribals. <3 There's just something about the feral nature of a tribal fur's eyes that gets energy going. My biggest spark in writing. Most romantic thing a girl could do for me is put on a loincloth and a strap of chest cloth. When I do occassionally like guys, they're usually tribal furs.
4.MalexMale is hit or miss on me. I'm not a fan of ass. I mean, yes, the curves are nice, but, I'm not gonna stick my face in it, or hump it. D: That's disgusting. What really turns me on with guys, is: kissing, cuddling, maybe groping if I've known them for a little while at first. It helps to be a cute little carefree boi, dancing on a con dance floor with a midriff top and fishnets with smooth touchable abs.
5.I will admit, I like ferals. Not real life ferals. That's disgusting. Roleplaying as a feral is fun as hell. I'm sorry if that disgusts someone.
6. Incest. All cases of enjoyment was a twin brother and sister, or a similarly aged brother and sister, prefferably initiated by the sister.
7. Bizarre color combinations in the fur, as long as it's still eye apetizing. No rainbows. A nice violet/beige with black accents here and theeere, or, neon green and neon yellow. Not a fetish per-se, but a turn-on. I really love chicks with butch-haircuts if they're skinny-husky sized.
Turn-offs:
1."Tailstar/ tailhole/ blackhole". See 4 above.
2.Babyfurs/young furs. There's just nothing attractive about traumatizing a child, even if it's just in roleplay.
3.Fatfur. I don't mean husky. I mean like: Holy shit, where'd the face go? Is it a walrus, or a cheetah?!
4.Muscles. Muscles just plain scare the shit out of me. If I
and yes, muscles are frightening...