Lol yea seems some dont know thier sexuality or like to genderbend all the time

haha I don't always know mine xD

I can find gender to be rather restrictive. It may provide outlines and definition, but sometimes the situation calls for adaptability over identity, if not a third option or more when available. Establish identity after one has examined their ranges of motion, then work within and around those limits.

Then again, considering my general lack/discomfort of body hair, lack of a beer belly and gorilla arms, other 'distinguishable' male features, and the occasional facial recognition software identifying me as a female in her late 20s (was playing with [how-old.net]), perhaps I'm tried of being nailed down. As a male I'll still have my natural biases and tendencies, but overall prefer having wiggle room. Because that dress looks REALLY comfortable, and I want to sleep in it.

I dunno. Maybe I just prefer having flexibility. Prolonged stiffness can be a bad sign of something. :p

ah, ok ^-^ Thanks for your input

Anyone here who isn't mature enough to read this with an open mind, can skip on over. I know this is not the popular opinion and some may see it as "hate" or whatever but go ahead.

Now to my point, humans, at nature, have a fear of commitment and decision making, if you give them a choice to make they take the time to work over all the fact, their personal feelings, the input of others and so on. Whether it's something simple like, "do I want an apple or an orange?" or "do I really want to be in a relationship with this person?". So when given the option to be both or neither, why not take the chance to be both, or nothing or something else that's new?

However my stance on all of it is, Be who you are, Do what you want to do, but it's YOUR business, I don't care. I think if a lot of these people would stop trying to be "proud" so much and making a fuss over it, people might be more accepting. People are afraid of change, just as much as commitment. They don't want to change the way things are or how they think. So if your trans, bi, gay, lesbian, straight, male, female, whatever. Stop making a fuss and be a person. There is always going to be the hate. and the discrimination, it's a part of human life, but trying to clash against it only makes things worse. I'm not trying to say hide who you are, or don't be who you want. Just stop making such a huge fuss about it. If you come to me and talk to me person to person and ask me to refer to you one way or the other then I will do my best to make you comfortable. But the second someone decides I "HAVE TO" refer to them or "NEED TO" treat them a certain way, that's the point when you lose my respect as a person. I don't go around bragging that I'm a straight male and was born a male and like being a male, so why do you? Summing it all up, be who you are and keep your business to yourself.

I agree with this very much. There is a movement going on with gender acceptance. But it has been tainted with a lot of the, well, SJW people. Some believe that if you are straight or "cis" then you have no opinion on the matter. They are the most disruptive and cancerous group out there.

Be who you are, don't shove it into peoples faces. Try to understand each other.

I see what you're saying.

I'm genderfluid and I'm open for questions, if you have any :3

Ok c:
I'm not quite sure lol
So... What gender were you before you realized you're genderfluid? Or something like that x3 And when did you realize it? Did you have a significant other when you started to act genderfluid or come out as it?

Actually I've never felt anything but genderfluid, I just didn't know it was a thing until I found out a couple of years ago. Like, when I first when to kindergarten I remember that I didn't have the "gender binary" figured out and it was hard for me to see boys as just boys or girls as just girls (I remember calling a kid a girl because he had long hair and wasn't "trashy" as the other boys were xD). So yea, I've never felt either boy or female, tho I'm happy with having a vagina and small boobs since I can look androginous enough to reflect the male part when I feel a lot Like it.
I was alone when I realized it was a thing and I didn't really "act Like it" when I was with my ex because I was too busy with school and depression to do that, yet I was never too feminine xD After I left my ex (not that he was doing something bad) I started caring a lot more about myself and expressing it definitely helped.
All that said, I'm not one who cares about it that much because it's been a normal thing for me and I'm not hurt if someone doesn't understand because I know it's weird for most people, but I'm all about letting them learn about it ^^

Well as you know, I'm male biologically but identify as female. I've always been naturally feminine even as a child, I enjoyed dressing up and stuff haha. Gender is definitely NOT binary, there was actually a study done on it earlier this year which you can read in the embedded link. It's quite interesting :)

alright, thanks :)