Mrarf. You surely aren't meant to be alone, this is very much true. But I just can only tell ya what you probably have been told before, in that you will find your right one, long as you keep looking. =( Little condolence or help now, I know, but I wish to let you know that I wish you just the best of luck for your search and cross my fingers for you~ ;-;

My best wishes to you~

Yeah it the only thing people keeps telling me and I am fucking tired of it....I've been looking for over 10 years!...it's fucking deppressing when you see couples out on the town or on the tv and movies ect... I just wanna have someone to share the rest of my life with, is that to much to ask... *sniffles*

No, it is most certainly not too much. Ya deserve someone like everyone. I know also that you will find that special one eventually. Be sure that everyone here wishes you nothing but the best of luck, just as i do.

Well hey, least you're not the only blue tiger out there :3

It may sound cliche, but....."Stop looking." Regardless of skin colour, true love will find you..and often when and where you least expect it.

Well, maybe it might help if you open up your circle of attraction to other race of men? I mean, it just feels like you when you zone in on one type of person, it can make things harder. ^^; But I'm sure you'll find someone.

On the by though, you could try going through the Personal Ad way and you may find the guy that way.

That is the problem I don't any other type of men sexual attractive, it's just not there, black men is the only men I find attractive...
and well I've been on several dating sites and hats like Personal ads I guess...

Really? Have you tried dating other men?

I've never officially dated anyone, but I have tried to point my interest to white men too, but there is nothing there, not a single thing. I mean I've even had dreams that I've been sexual with a white man but when I woke up it felt like I'd just had a nightmare and I felt so dirty, the bad way dirty, like I just wanted to take a shower :/
So yeah, I just don't feel that way to withe men, only black men is interesting and attractive to me in a deeper level.
It's complicated but true.
It's a really deep preferences that I do think goes back since I was child I just didn't reflect on it until I was a teen and my first real crush was to a colord man. I mean as a child I really wanted a black barbie doll and dark skinned baby/infant doll, and all the times me and my bestie played we roll-played as animals and in my mind the males where all black or dark colored and females white or light colord, it was so per automatic I didn't think it was strange or so it just was natural to my mind.

Sorry I'm ranting now *lol* ^^; but yeah

Gee... That is just.. Strange. I mean... Is there any reason, anything at all that caused this attraction? What do black men have that white men don't have? Because the common thing I here from people infatuated with black men is the sexual connotation...

It is simply the darker skin color that does it for me, just the great contrast between dark and light skin color is THE big turn on for me.
In a way I've always found darker colors mover favorable than light.
Sure I like big Ds _{(who doesn't, haha)} I can't deny that but really if you showed me a pic of a white big D, I feel nothing to it if anything it would be disgust, but switch it to black one and I drool *lol*

...I'm weird I know...

Well... The only advice I can give is that to remember when you do talk to black guys, don't make them feel like your fetish because contrary to popular belief, black guys don't like being pigeon-holed in that circle. And the ones who do, well, they probably wouldn't be the guys you'd want to have a relationship with. Just saying. ^^;

I would never do that, those I have talked to I've talked to as like any other and sure they have asked why just black men and I honestly tell how it is that it's the skin color that that I find attractive and so far no one has like been offended in anyway, not that I know anyway.

What I think is that most guys just don't have the patience, even though I've clearly written in my dating description that I am a shy girl and I struggle with social phobia and anxiety.. But no it's like they don't bother to read it and even if I tell them when we start writing they still wanna meet as soon as possible even though I clearly say that I can't to that and some have even asked me of being a fraud, even though i have several photos up on the profile...it's just so effing frustrating

But yeah mainly most men I've talked to haven't had the patience to get to know me.

Okay good. I'm just saying this because here in America, a lot of people who only go for a certain race do that and I remember I once got fetishized by a white guy who liked me because I was "exotic" and wouldn't stop talking about my skin color. It really was creepy... So yeah, as long as you come off respectful and sincere, you'll be fine.

But your problem is because it's the nature of online dating. In online dating, the underlying thing for a lot of people is quick sex and not real relationships. That's why you have guys who ask stupid things when you wrote specific things in your profile. You should probably try and meet guys IRL. That might fare better.

Kay, yeah I would never do that and haven't ever done that, though it has been a couple of times that the guys has asked me that in a flirty way, hehe, but I still say "nah, it's just 'cause I'm only attracted to dark skinned men" and so on ^^

And well sure online dating get that reputation but I think most it's more a myth than truth 'cause I've talked to guys that just looking for friends and so on, I mean you can be looking for what ever it's just my luck on finding guys that say they look for a serious relationship but still doesn't have the patience to get to know me even though I clearly state it in my profile and says it to them directly.

Dating in RL, how? I struggle with social phobia and well we swedes don't really go out and start talking to strangers, we are quite a quiet people when out (if they aren't drunk though) and I'm not one to go out that much and I don't have any friends around that could help me either....that's why I like online dating better since then I can safely meet and get to know people without going from my home/safety zone. Plus I express myself so much better writing that actually talking, specially to new people...

Yeah, I watched a few videos about Sweden awhile back and yes, definitely cultural differences. I guess you should just keep the faith then.

Yeah, and yeah I am trying to, but it's hard after so many years.

Well, the only thing you can do is keep trying, maybe try moving location, or really consider opening your dating options and try to find some attraction to non-black men.

I am 'cause if I give I'll never find one since I barely go out. Trust me I have tried looking at non-black as well but it just doesn't work for me, I just can't feel more than friendship with non-black men :/

Well okay, just keep trying then heh.

*hugs*

You'll find one some day. I'm sure of it.

Well it sucks about your scope being narrowed down, but it can't be helped, I guess.