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As far as my life goes... I've hit a new low.......
10 years ago
So, I doubt some of you will read this, but as the title says, it's been a shitty few days, let alone the last couple years... HOWEVER, yesterday and the day before were worse... much... much... worse...
Some of you may know that I have a sister... MAYBE... what y'all don't know (unless you freakishly do) is that she's deaf. That's DEAF, not DEAD... DEAF, as in CAN'T HEAR... I thought we'd get that mis-read out of the way now before I proceed much further...
In addition, there'll be some more background... I have an older uncle, a younger uncle and aunt (twins), and of course, still my gramma on mom's side... My older uncle is deaf as well, gramma's part deaf, the other two are not...
Little more back story, in 2010, I decided to be nice and invite my older uncle and my gramma to my High School Graduation... They came, it was pretty cool... Until drama got started because uncle found out something, told the other 2, and big drama ensued about a month later... It ended up with this mass chaos which lead to none of us talking to ANY of them, even though we already weren't... (Technically mom's 3 siblings are the reason my PawPaw died in 2010)
Anyways... My sister's graduation was coming up, she invited the same 2 I did, and I guess she had spoken to mom about them coming... Mom said fine, but they can't come to the house... After all the shit that's happened, I don't blame her, yanno?? So apparently, as time got closer and closer, CLOSER AND CLOSER, we figure she'd been talking to them more and more and more, and it was apparent something was up...
Mom told my sister she COULD NOT go to the hotel with them. I mean we're driving all this way, we wanna spend graduation with her, nothing wrong with that, right? Well, the other day (20th), we started driving to Knoxville. About halfway there, mom's texting my sister, and somehow the hotel subject came up... O_O So, mom asks "Which Hotel?" and my sister's response is "Knights Inn"... Something wasn't right, and when mom asked, she says her friend's name... Mom asked if she was lying, and she goes "Haha, with Uncle and Gramma"
Needless to say, mom was pissed... My sister was OFF CAMPUS with people she was told NOT to go with... THEY HAD COME AND PICKED HER UP AND TOOK HER OFF CAMPUS. (For those wondering, she goes to a deaf BOARDING school)... When mom called the school, they told her that she had given permission, and that they didn't know where my sister was... By this time, we're all mad. Obviously... Yes, she's 20 yrs old, but yanno...
We got to the hotel, dropped our stuff off, and went to the school. My sister wasn't there, they had photocopies of mom's texts to my sister (apparently giving permission, that was their proof), and the guy in charge says he gave her permission because of her age and the texts that he misread. When we tried to get my sister back, all we got was NO NO NO... After a while, she starts responding with this "Go to hell" "God has my back and will take care of you" "You lied to my face" "I hate you" "I don't want you here" and much more. SHE NEVER SAYS STUFF LIKE THIS, especially about God or the bible, and it was apparent something was EVEN MORE UP when we got "Fix your grammar." SHE NEVER EVER tells someone to fix their grammar, and moreso hardly uses it herself in texting since she's deaf.
After sitting at the school for some time and arguing with my sister, we gave up, and went back to the hotel. By this time, my parents are fighting, and are pinning me in the middle of it... They're screaming at each other, and then start screaming at me, and ugh. FML... During all this time, they were getting some kinda response from her, but me? Nope. Not HARDLY. NOT AT ALL. I GOT NOTHING. They got responses, disrespectful or not, but me, NOTHING...
After a while, we got some food, ate, went to sleep, and woke up yesterday morning... We decided that even though my sister was being a bitch (to put it lightly) we'd go to the awards ceremony... We arrived, and found my sister, with THEM... We already figured that was the case, but regardless, we went... When we saw her, she only said one thing to my mom, and that was to get her shoes. Mom told her they were in the truck,, and my sister said to get them. Mom said again that they were in the truck, and my sister then glanced at me, snubbed me, and turned around, and walked away... Needless to say, her attitude went from bitch, to bitch witch, and progessively worse... The art teacher tried to get her to come talk to us, but she refused... Dad couldn't handle the shit, and went outside... Grandma followed suit, mom started feeling sick, and by this time, I'm starting to cry... yeah... My sister was noticed for honors, and that was it...
Turns out, all the seniors (only like 30 seniors total) got a gift from the art teacher, of a watercolor painting of a selfie they decided to take... At the end of the ceremony, my grandpa (stepdad's side) grabbed my sisters gift bag to give it to her, when someone comes from behind him, snatches it out of his hand, and says "That's Samantha's, NOT YOURS." My grandpa responded with "This is her mom, and we were gonna give it to her." and the art teacher snatched it completely, and stated "I don't think she wants anything to do with you right now." and walked away... I found that out outside... She refused to approach mom at all, and that started to hurt pretty bad... for all of us... By this time, we're thinking that we've done NOTHING to deserve this behavior... NOTHING, and we're getting treated like straight shit.
By this time, my sister had vanished to the SENIOR FAMILY LUNCHEON with THEM, while we went outside. She didn't want us there... Feeling pretty hurt, we hopped in our respective vehicles, went to the hotel room to take care of the puppy quick, and went to lunch. By this time I've cried more than once, mom has too, and everyone's straight up pissed... We went to lunch, finished, and grandma and grandpa didn't feel wanted, so they left to go home last night... We ended up staying regardless because the room was paid up for another night...
As much as we felt she didn't deserve it, I got mom and dad to go to the graduation... I felt it only right. You only get ONE High School Graduation... And regardless of the shit, we wanted to see her walk... Until she realized we were there (by seeing me with the camcorder) and made it VERY apparent that she didn't want me there. She turned her head, hid her face, cut me the most burning evil looks, and then turned to THEM, and said "brother and mom and dad here" and started talking about stuff...
I filmed all of the students walking, and when it was her turn, she cut me the look of pure hatred, and stepped off the stage, not giving me another look... By this time, she's said absolutely NOTHING to me, refused to look at me, and when she did, it was hell... She refused to come home with us, and left with them... Pretty much her last memorable high school moment, and she made us feel like pure shit...
By this time, I'm starting to break down of pain, not much to say but "Why?" and "What did we do?", and we left. We went back to the hotel room, tried texting her, and still nothing. She basically shunned us out...
We had thought she had removed her fb, only to find out from my girlfriend (they're friends on fb) that she didn't remove it, she removed ALL OF US, and blocked us... All of us except those in Ohio, THEM...
I feel absolutely shattered still... Not sure what to think... We don't think she's coming home, obviously, but I don't even know what we did to deserve this, other than the fact we didn't let her have her way, but she did it anyways...
I think I'm just gonna go die now, only seems right... MY LITTLE SISTER, and this happened... I can say I'm proud that she walked... I can say I'm glad she got a stole with her cap and gown (I got one for my school, and wanted her to have one), and I can say I'm happy she graduated... But she wants nothing to do with us, at all, so Iunno... We all still feel pretty hurt tbh... And I'm not sure what else to say...
Some of you may know that I have a sister... MAYBE... what y'all don't know (unless you freakishly do) is that she's deaf. That's DEAF, not DEAD... DEAF, as in CAN'T HEAR... I thought we'd get that mis-read out of the way now before I proceed much further...
In addition, there'll be some more background... I have an older uncle, a younger uncle and aunt (twins), and of course, still my gramma on mom's side... My older uncle is deaf as well, gramma's part deaf, the other two are not...
Little more back story, in 2010, I decided to be nice and invite my older uncle and my gramma to my High School Graduation... They came, it was pretty cool... Until drama got started because uncle found out something, told the other 2, and big drama ensued about a month later... It ended up with this mass chaos which lead to none of us talking to ANY of them, even though we already weren't... (Technically mom's 3 siblings are the reason my PawPaw died in 2010)
Anyways... My sister's graduation was coming up, she invited the same 2 I did, and I guess she had spoken to mom about them coming... Mom said fine, but they can't come to the house... After all the shit that's happened, I don't blame her, yanno?? So apparently, as time got closer and closer, CLOSER AND CLOSER, we figure she'd been talking to them more and more and more, and it was apparent something was up...
Mom told my sister she COULD NOT go to the hotel with them. I mean we're driving all this way, we wanna spend graduation with her, nothing wrong with that, right? Well, the other day (20th), we started driving to Knoxville. About halfway there, mom's texting my sister, and somehow the hotel subject came up... O_O So, mom asks "Which Hotel?" and my sister's response is "Knights Inn"... Something wasn't right, and when mom asked, she says her friend's name... Mom asked if she was lying, and she goes "Haha, with Uncle and Gramma"
Needless to say, mom was pissed... My sister was OFF CAMPUS with people she was told NOT to go with... THEY HAD COME AND PICKED HER UP AND TOOK HER OFF CAMPUS. (For those wondering, she goes to a deaf BOARDING school)... When mom called the school, they told her that she had given permission, and that they didn't know where my sister was... By this time, we're all mad. Obviously... Yes, she's 20 yrs old, but yanno...
We got to the hotel, dropped our stuff off, and went to the school. My sister wasn't there, they had photocopies of mom's texts to my sister (apparently giving permission, that was their proof), and the guy in charge says he gave her permission because of her age and the texts that he misread. When we tried to get my sister back, all we got was NO NO NO... After a while, she starts responding with this "Go to hell" "God has my back and will take care of you" "You lied to my face" "I hate you" "I don't want you here" and much more. SHE NEVER SAYS STUFF LIKE THIS, especially about God or the bible, and it was apparent something was EVEN MORE UP when we got "Fix your grammar." SHE NEVER EVER tells someone to fix their grammar, and moreso hardly uses it herself in texting since she's deaf.
After sitting at the school for some time and arguing with my sister, we gave up, and went back to the hotel. By this time, my parents are fighting, and are pinning me in the middle of it... They're screaming at each other, and then start screaming at me, and ugh. FML... During all this time, they were getting some kinda response from her, but me? Nope. Not HARDLY. NOT AT ALL. I GOT NOTHING. They got responses, disrespectful or not, but me, NOTHING...
After a while, we got some food, ate, went to sleep, and woke up yesterday morning... We decided that even though my sister was being a bitch (to put it lightly) we'd go to the awards ceremony... We arrived, and found my sister, with THEM... We already figured that was the case, but regardless, we went... When we saw her, she only said one thing to my mom, and that was to get her shoes. Mom told her they were in the truck,, and my sister said to get them. Mom said again that they were in the truck, and my sister then glanced at me, snubbed me, and turned around, and walked away... Needless to say, her attitude went from bitch, to bitch witch, and progessively worse... The art teacher tried to get her to come talk to us, but she refused... Dad couldn't handle the shit, and went outside... Grandma followed suit, mom started feeling sick, and by this time, I'm starting to cry... yeah... My sister was noticed for honors, and that was it...
Turns out, all the seniors (only like 30 seniors total) got a gift from the art teacher, of a watercolor painting of a selfie they decided to take... At the end of the ceremony, my grandpa (stepdad's side) grabbed my sisters gift bag to give it to her, when someone comes from behind him, snatches it out of his hand, and says "That's Samantha's, NOT YOURS." My grandpa responded with "This is her mom, and we were gonna give it to her." and the art teacher snatched it completely, and stated "I don't think she wants anything to do with you right now." and walked away... I found that out outside... She refused to approach mom at all, and that started to hurt pretty bad... for all of us... By this time, we're thinking that we've done NOTHING to deserve this behavior... NOTHING, and we're getting treated like straight shit.
By this time, my sister had vanished to the SENIOR FAMILY LUNCHEON with THEM, while we went outside. She didn't want us there... Feeling pretty hurt, we hopped in our respective vehicles, went to the hotel room to take care of the puppy quick, and went to lunch. By this time I've cried more than once, mom has too, and everyone's straight up pissed... We went to lunch, finished, and grandma and grandpa didn't feel wanted, so they left to go home last night... We ended up staying regardless because the room was paid up for another night...
As much as we felt she didn't deserve it, I got mom and dad to go to the graduation... I felt it only right. You only get ONE High School Graduation... And regardless of the shit, we wanted to see her walk... Until she realized we were there (by seeing me with the camcorder) and made it VERY apparent that she didn't want me there. She turned her head, hid her face, cut me the most burning evil looks, and then turned to THEM, and said "brother and mom and dad here" and started talking about stuff...
I filmed all of the students walking, and when it was her turn, she cut me the look of pure hatred, and stepped off the stage, not giving me another look... By this time, she's said absolutely NOTHING to me, refused to look at me, and when she did, it was hell... She refused to come home with us, and left with them... Pretty much her last memorable high school moment, and she made us feel like pure shit...
By this time, I'm starting to break down of pain, not much to say but "Why?" and "What did we do?", and we left. We went back to the hotel room, tried texting her, and still nothing. She basically shunned us out...
We had thought she had removed her fb, only to find out from my girlfriend (they're friends on fb) that she didn't remove it, she removed ALL OF US, and blocked us... All of us except those in Ohio, THEM...
I feel absolutely shattered still... Not sure what to think... We don't think she's coming home, obviously, but I don't even know what we did to deserve this, other than the fact we didn't let her have her way, but she did it anyways...
I think I'm just gonna go die now, only seems right... MY LITTLE SISTER, and this happened... I can say I'm proud that she walked... I can say I'm glad she got a stole with her cap and gown (I got one for my school, and wanted her to have one), and I can say I'm happy she graduated... But she wants nothing to do with us, at all, so Iunno... We all still feel pretty hurt tbh... And I'm not sure what else to say...
Hope things get better, sounds like a rough situation ):
I'm really sorry you're going through this. :c