IRC only tends to have the same group of people every day, most channels seem really dead and the people I meet usually don't take me very seriously.

F-List introduces me to lots of people but due to the nature of the site I'm pretty sure most of the people I talk to there only really care about me for helping them get off. Most of the friendships I have seem to be pretty heavily focused on roleplay in the first place, way more than I would have liked. Most people don't contact me unless they're horny. (I have met a small handful of people on F-List that care about me though)

Second Life runs really horribly on my laptop most of the time and when it doesn't, in the places I know of to visit, pretty much nobody will pay attention to me and the people I talk to usually turn out to be too closed-minded to be okay with my fursona.

I'm not really sure where I'm supposed to go to try to make friendships that aren't just based around roleplay, with people that are willing to take me seriously and give me a chance. Even offline, nobody seems willing to give me a chance and there's only two people I know at all that are willing to hang out... Though, I did start going to a counselor so I hope that will somehow help socially (but I don't think there's anything I can do to make people want to give me a chance more).

Also, ever since  fluffylinn broke up with me I've been wanting to get in a relationship again now that I know what it feels like to be in one, but I have absolutely no clue where I'm supposed to find any girl furries (IRC only has dudes, gay dudes and trans girls). Most people I've had feelings for (furry and otherwise) either turn out to be terrible, lesbian or just plain not interested in me. Are there any furry dating sites that are any good? I'm kind of desperate at this point, and I keep getting scared of ending up alone just because I don't think I'll be able to find anyone willing to give me a chance.