You have people that are here to support you Jack. hang onto those. Don't ever give up

I could kill the bitch for you, you know. I loathe her and your family. If she even dare to give that look to me when we return from AC, willing if I get the luck to appear back with you around then, since I'm not certain of how my work schedule will be after July 13th, but anyway, I will deck her in her bitchass face nor will I be pleasant in my own voice. I will place a curse over her and your family, which will be as bad as to bring harm to them if they so much as give you any sort of hell once I get back home to my family, which believe me, will greet me even far better than yours ever, EVER, could do to you. And if they even remotely cause you to commit suicide, I'll have them arrested.

Easy there. Even if you're kidding that is seriously harsh language. It's not loving language at all--it's hate speech, pure and simple.

If you hate his family, you hate him--there's no getting around that. They shouldn't treat him as they do but they are his family and he is their family.

And please be careful with regard to curses--those are real, and not child's play. Don't EVER inflict one unless you want one inflicted upon yourself and your own family.

Not necessarily, if I hate his family, that does not mean I hate him. And I'm not naive to curses, I've dealt with them before throughout my life thus far. And what I say is serious and out of the love I hold for him. I don't have to love his family, I'm not having a relationship with them, i.e., dating them, nor would I, given the fact his mother is a pill addict and alcoholic, who is nuts beyond belief. And I have dealt with addicts before, they're not good people to say the least. Both his parents praise his asshat brother more than they do him. Hell, his parents have never encouraged him, not even once and I loathe those sorts of people as well, it makes them shitty and awful, which is nowhere near being a true Christian as they constantly call themselves to be. If anyone says "hate speech" more than anything, it's his family and honestly, it disgusts me to even use that word for them because they are no sort of family at all. I'm the most loving and caring person that you could ever meet, but cross me or anyone I love or am close to, then quite honestly you'll be fucked. And my use of this language just means I'm blunt, as well as, brutal in how I feel and in being honest. I'm this way because I've been hurt by many in life and someone has to be the harsh one in this world because sugarcoating anything is simply another form of lying and honesty is what I prefer than that.

His family produced him. And that frightens me, that you say you've dealt with curses before and yet you would so casually inflict any on anyone. I heard what you said and I heard no love--only hatred, which stifles love. Hatred for someone who has hurt someone you're attached to--especially if that someone is that person's family--is not love. I'm an addict myself and I need help. I don't want to be hard to deal with, I want empathy and understanding. An addict doesn't need what you said. It's fine to hate those behaviors but that's not the same as hating the people--that makes as much sense as me saying that I hate you because I hate what you said in your previous comment. But I do NOT hate you--I hate what you said because I love you. Those words will only hurt you--and Jack--and I don't want to see you get hurt. You're right, that isn't being a true Christian, but neither was your behavior. What they did is horrible but it doesn't justify you stooping to a similarly bad level. I'm sorry, but I cannot believe that "the most loving and caring person that you could ever meet" would have it in her heart to say such cruel things, no matter what someone did. I think you're blind to your own behavior if you can say such things on the same webpage. If that's what you think love is, then I'll make this the last time I talk to you because that's not what Jack needs at all. Being harsh isn't what you were being--you were retaliating, and that isn't loving.

Goodbye.

Um, for one, I'm not a Christian, I'm a Spiritualist and he knows how I feel about his family, and he isn't hurt by it because he feels the same about them. And for one, hate is part of human nature. Sorry to burst your bubble, but I'm not speaking full of hatred here. But that's your opinion and assumption. And I'm not attacking him, seriously. And man, are you too quick to judge someone, which if I recall isn't your place to do. Now, is it? I may not be of the complete Christian religion, but I did grow up that way before finding where I belonged. It's your problem if you want to see me as this hateful being, but as said, it's part of human nature, as well as, animal nature. And my dear frilly and I know that I'm more loving and caring, what you think doesn't matter to me. I don't wish to care about what others think of me. Love me or hate me, I'm going to be me. I admit and own up to being harsh and brutal, at least that's more than most people do anyway in this day and age. In fact, it's a more mature thing to admit your faults and flaws, as well as, accept them. If others can't overlook that in anyway to see what else is there, then that makes you no better now does it?

Let's not forget the good times we had at the Bash. They will give us strength for the times ahead. We just need to hold on, until we see each other again.

That helps. Getting out of here will help more

It was a real joy to join you in praying the Rosary and attending Mass together. We will do so at Anthrocon as well, my friend!

Dominus tecum