Personal rambling
10 years ago
I just want to ramble a bit there since this is my most private site lately.
So, there is this DA/ME artist on another site that happens to know my best friend. This artist is pretty popular in both fandoms, their skills are pretty nice too.
The point is, they keep talking shit about me to my friend. They are incredibly jealous of everything I do, like the fact that I'm making cash from commissions, the fact I progress, the fact I got many notes under my drawings on tumblr etc. The fun fact is that this person acts incredibly sweet whenever they write to me in comments (because I don't know them privately and we never really talked). They refer to me as 'this person' and get incredibly mad by the fact that people actually kind of like my stuff. And they say shit to my best friend. They are even mad because I found myself a happy corner here, with turian folks. If I ever did anything to this person, like being asshole or something, but every time we exchanged short messages, I was complimenting them. And since I progressed, the bitching got worse.
What should I do guys? Confront or let this shit go?
So, there is this DA/ME artist on another site that happens to know my best friend. This artist is pretty popular in both fandoms, their skills are pretty nice too.
The point is, they keep talking shit about me to my friend. They are incredibly jealous of everything I do, like the fact that I'm making cash from commissions, the fact I progress, the fact I got many notes under my drawings on tumblr etc. The fun fact is that this person acts incredibly sweet whenever they write to me in comments (because I don't know them privately and we never really talked). They refer to me as 'this person' and get incredibly mad by the fact that people actually kind of like my stuff. And they say shit to my best friend. They are even mad because I found myself a happy corner here, with turian folks. If I ever did anything to this person, like being asshole or something, but every time we exchanged short messages, I was complimenting them. And since I progressed, the bitching got worse.
What should I do guys? Confront or let this shit go?
Who knew! Hard work and practice and all your time and effort put into art can actually pay off! WHAT A HORRIBLE THING!
I really don't know what to do about it... bad with that advice. But hopefully it's not getting to you! Anyone that wants someone to feel guilty or wrong for making something of a developed talent or skill is wrong. : /
Life's got too much negativity already! Spending so much time and energy on tearing someone down for literally no good reason isn't high on anyone's list of things-to-enjoy-today.
If it gets even worse bring out the british insult card hah jk dont do that
Just ignore the jellyness and i agree with jester here its should be up to your friend really
The person couldn't avoid exposure for long. Something I would only hope to try and see is, they may be very troubled. They may struggle with that vice which is likely envy, towards you, and anyone else that arrives to their awareness about what they do, to in concept render them in a complicated evaluative state about their own doing. There may be a lot of subject to comparison, but a lot of it is negative no matter what. It's not good that this is happening, the person is not in the right to be treating you like this, and this likely needs to be confronted right away.
Personally, I would leave a note for them either by direct message in saying hello to them again or in meantime in offering kindness and your valuable person of expression. Let them know finally about your knowledge of things as your friend does and try your best to be understanding. You can let them know about the power of acceptance and possibly be a reminder that what they do is as appreciated as all the other wonderful work that is illustrated and shared among one another. If there are issues that continue on from an eventual confrontation of the matter, let them alone and move on. Your friend will be there to follow I'm sure. It already seems that things have heightened from complimenting. Only so much can be done sometimes, and it's not welcome for negative, demotivational people to be involved with your life.
You are an amazing artist. You are loved, other people out there definitely need to know that. I am hoping the best for you on this, I believe that you can do it and it will be okay.
(Sorry for all the typos and prolly so-so wording, just woke up so brain is like sloooowly reboooting XD)