Purge
10 years ago
General
*ahem* hello all of you fine furry folks. In lieu of recent events, I feel I need to have a word with some of you...
For those of you I have cut contact with, It was intentional. I have been needing to do a purge of people whom have been toxic and harmful to me (and this isn't the first time, either) , even if we "have been getting along lately". I am finally developing a healthy social life again and do not need to fall back on pointless internet small-talk like I used to, when i felt the internet was the only safe place to be myself - especially when doing so left me at the hands of whiners, annoying pests, and creepy perverts.
If not being able to chit chat with me on the computer is such a huge deal, I'd say you likely need to seek a healthier social life yourself, eh?
I would also like to point out in some cases, I may be avoiding you because *I* was the problem. I have made the bad habit of being an enabler for several folks, always tolerating their abrasive and inappropriate behavior. I no longer want to be the reason for some people thinking their poor behavior is acceptable.
And, *scoffs* if you can't figure out why I possibly wouldn't want to speak with you anymore, have a few examples:
-talking shit about my beloved
-sending creepy notes and comments to my beloved
-constantly beating me upside the head with your obnoxious my little pony obsession
- making unwelcome sexual comments
-wanting me to 'fool around' with you behind my at-the-time-boyfriend's back
-writing incredibly hurtful journals about me...because I didn't like an episode of a freaking tv show
-claiming to be my friend while you toss around terms like "fag" and "dick-girl" and "queer"
-trying to convince me on a daily basis that feminists are trying to destroy video games and/or eat your babies
-boring me to death rambling about stuff I'm clearly not very interested in
...i could go on, but the point is, fuck you people. I don't need your drama, negativity or creepiness. I have a wonderful new girlfriend,
AshleyFableBlack and it's been a exhilarating change in my life to go from being quiet a quiet, reclusive, self-hating computer nerd to an active, sociable, happy half of a wonderful relationship (but rest assured, I am still very much a computer nerd *smirks*)
This doesn't mean I'm leaving FA, though heck knows, I haven't been very active here in the first place. This does mean, however, I'm not really available for little skype chats about your boring fursona or cutesie rp nonsense anymore. I am still here to occasionally share my silly little drawings, in hopes that someone will find them fun or interesting. I'm pretty tired, so this may a bit sloppy, but I needed to get this put out there. -waves her hand- soo, good enough, i say.
For those of you I have cut contact with, It was intentional. I have been needing to do a purge of people whom have been toxic and harmful to me (and this isn't the first time, either) , even if we "have been getting along lately". I am finally developing a healthy social life again and do not need to fall back on pointless internet small-talk like I used to, when i felt the internet was the only safe place to be myself - especially when doing so left me at the hands of whiners, annoying pests, and creepy perverts.
If not being able to chit chat with me on the computer is such a huge deal, I'd say you likely need to seek a healthier social life yourself, eh?
I would also like to point out in some cases, I may be avoiding you because *I* was the problem. I have made the bad habit of being an enabler for several folks, always tolerating their abrasive and inappropriate behavior. I no longer want to be the reason for some people thinking their poor behavior is acceptable.
And, *scoffs* if you can't figure out why I possibly wouldn't want to speak with you anymore, have a few examples:
-talking shit about my beloved
-sending creepy notes and comments to my beloved
-constantly beating me upside the head with your obnoxious my little pony obsession
- making unwelcome sexual comments
-wanting me to 'fool around' with you behind my at-the-time-boyfriend's back
-writing incredibly hurtful journals about me...because I didn't like an episode of a freaking tv show
-claiming to be my friend while you toss around terms like "fag" and "dick-girl" and "queer"
-trying to convince me on a daily basis that feminists are trying to destroy video games and/or eat your babies
-boring me to death rambling about stuff I'm clearly not very interested in
...i could go on, but the point is, fuck you people. I don't need your drama, negativity or creepiness. I have a wonderful new girlfriend,
AshleyFableBlack and it's been a exhilarating change in my life to go from being quiet a quiet, reclusive, self-hating computer nerd to an active, sociable, happy half of a wonderful relationship (but rest assured, I am still very much a computer nerd *smirks*)This doesn't mean I'm leaving FA, though heck knows, I haven't been very active here in the first place. This does mean, however, I'm not really available for little skype chats about your boring fursona or cutesie rp nonsense anymore. I am still here to occasionally share my silly little drawings, in hopes that someone will find them fun or interesting. I'm pretty tired, so this may a bit sloppy, but I needed to get this put out there. -waves her hand- soo, good enough, i say.
FA+

like myself hehjust sit there and let things that bother them keep bothering them, never making any attempt to fix things. CX...Uh, yeah. At any rate, wishing you hope for the future! And if anyone ever gives you any lip, send them my way, I will set them right for you. ;D