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not sure how to be asserive
10 years ago
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Thanks for all the advice guys! It is actually technically her house but we're all paying the same and we did agree that there would be no smoking inside- I will tell her she needs to stop because of the agreement if it keeps happening- she is also my friend so she should respect me.
My roommates have started smoking cigarettes in their room, but it travels into the entire rest of the house...
And I want to ask them to stop because we agreed when we moved in that cigarettes happen outside only... but I don't know what to say because like.. it's not that I can't breathe in the smoke, I just really dislike the smell of cigarettes and it makes it feel like it's not my house
So I don't know what to do. I've asked them politely once before
Thanks for all the advice guys! It is actually technically her house but we're all paying the same and we did agree that there would be no smoking inside- I will tell her she needs to stop because of the agreement if it keeps happening- she is also my friend so she should respect me.
My roommates have started smoking cigarettes in their room, but it travels into the entire rest of the house...
And I want to ask them to stop because we agreed when we moved in that cigarettes happen outside only... but I don't know what to say because like.. it's not that I can't breathe in the smoke, I just really dislike the smell of cigarettes and it makes it feel like it's not my house
So I don't know what to do. I've asked them politely once before
Assertive: hey guys would you mind smoking outside it is causing me *specific issues here* i would appreciate it especially since that is what we agreed on at the start.
Aggressive: STOP SMOKING INDOORS YOU FUCKING CUNTBAGS OR I WILL RAPE YOU MOTHER WITH A TREE BRANCH