Really it is. I'm not an ogre who will trash your house and start campaigns against you for saying no to anything I happen to ask. Nothing is worse than asking about the possibility of something and have the other person refuse by never saying anything. Even more awkward is when they accept and never say anything then show up asking about it like a million years later. OvO Seriously. if I ever ask any of you out there a question directly, please just answer, what ever the answer is okay. I usually ask because I am concerned about comfort zones or stress a request or curious question may pose.