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10 years ago
I'm still on hiatus but I wanted to talk about this for a second
Y'know what's not hard? Constantly putting up this idea of how someone is for something they did years ago, something that people learned from the experience either good or bad, and just leaving it there. Making someone a constant bad guy, it's not hard. I was a really crappy teenager and as an adult I'm not a great person but I like to try to be a bit better about things. Y'know what's harsh? shutting people down because "i know you're just going to do it again" Well sometimes it takes someone a couple of times to make a mistake. I'm not saying that people have to stay and wait for the turnout, but it may surprise you people can actually change if they try.
If given time, if brought up to the light some people acknowledge past negative behaviors and try to work for a positive one. I think that at least thinking someone could have changed gives a person a chance to be a person because I think everyone has a messed up moment here or there they will never mention especially if they can hide it well.
I'm not good at explaining but I kylehenkee made a very good post about it.
post 1 http://kyleehenke.tumblr.com/post/126581301010
Just.. food for thought
if you want to express something maybe give your thoughts I'd be interested in reading them
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Y'know what's not hard? Constantly putting up this idea of how someone is for something they did years ago, something that people learned from the experience either good or bad, and just leaving it there. Making someone a constant bad guy, it's not hard. I was a really crappy teenager and as an adult I'm not a great person but I like to try to be a bit better about things. Y'know what's harsh? shutting people down because "i know you're just going to do it again" Well sometimes it takes someone a couple of times to make a mistake. I'm not saying that people have to stay and wait for the turnout, but it may surprise you people can actually change if they try.
If given time, if brought up to the light some people acknowledge past negative behaviors and try to work for a positive one. I think that at least thinking someone could have changed gives a person a chance to be a person because I think everyone has a messed up moment here or there they will never mention especially if they can hide it well.
I'm not good at explaining but I kylehenkee made a very good post about it.
post 1 http://kyleehenke.tumblr.com/post/126581301010
Just.. food for thought
if you want to express something maybe give your thoughts I'd be interested in reading them
[will delete]
All my frands become my problematic favs at one point lol
They all have this quirk or aspect to them that I may not necessarily like but hey it comes with the package, it's just a thing they do.
On the other hand from the opposing person's point of view...I guess people like that usually have a reason to? Sometimes I like to see the opposing side's point of view. That person may have a mild case of trust issues. I'm no doctor but, that could stem from a number of things idk where to even start.
But yeah I'm still a youngion.....adult. But I think I'm old enough to understand where your coming from and yeah no one is a flippin robot built to perfection, tbh I don't even think a robot can be truly perfect and never at fault....Siri sucks